My friend always tries to beat me at stuff in life. She knows I love the Jonas Brothers so she told me that she's going to meet them. She can turn everyone against me in 5 minutes. It's just so annoying because she's very popular and she always is showing me that she's better than me. I hate the feeling. I always feel as though I'm in competition with her even though I don't want to be. What shoud I do?
2007-08-24 09:18:38 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Sorry Hun, she isn't your friend. She uses you to make herself look and feel better about herself. Any one she turns against you isn't your friend either.
It seems she is a very insecure person, and probably not as popular as you think. Who says she's popular.... Her? Find a real friend. She isn't worth your time.
2007-08-24 09:25:48 · answer #1 · answered by onedrin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a similar problem in high school. You need to let her go. Become better friends with someone else, but still keep her as a friend because it sounds like if you don't she will turn everyone else against you. You just need to keep space in between the two of you. She will probably find someone else to torture and you will be off the hook. Good luck
2007-08-24 16:26:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok she isn't a real friend a real friend dosen't do that, a real friend isnt competitive and they help each other get better at stuff that they suck at.
I think that you should either dump her or talk to her and say if you don't stop trying to beat me out in everything I'm just gonna stop being friends with you
Keep Smiling
Missy,
Good Luck
2007-08-24 16:26:46 · answer #3 · answered by †Broken Glass Heart† 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
me and my friend can be that way sometimes we are 3 days apart and our mothers have been best friends since they were kids we have always been like sisters growing up but we compete with each other over almost anything if she makes you feel low confront her about it in a nice way and if she turns people against you start hanging out with people who she doesn't know that well but know you if makes her feel like she can't be a jerk around them because she has to make a good impression.. just have the self confidence in yourself to be yourself no matter what she does..
2007-08-24 16:33:06 · answer #4 · answered by Hana 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Believe me those aren't the kind of friends you want to have. you're just there to make her feel superior. Find some nicer people to hang out with and gradually start hanging out with them and less with her.
2007-08-24 16:23:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Drop her. hunny drop her like a hot potatoe. shes obviously Jealous of you. Or she wouldnt be doing this. shes insecure with herself so shes trying to make you feel like a loser which you r not. so forget about her and make new friends
2007-08-24 16:25:52 · answer #6 · answered by Cheval 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. There are approximately 6.4 billion potential friends out there.
2007-08-24 16:26:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Delete her as a friend.. She obviously envies you, that's why she feels that she has to constantly compete with you. Cut her off!!!!!
2007-08-24 16:24:07 · answer #8 · answered by ANEV 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make a new friend
2007-08-24 16:28:26 · answer #9 · answered by keezy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you still friends with that snob?
2007-08-24 16:29:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋