ok my husband likes to jerk himself off twice a week and i dont know about it unless i cought him doing it and he says that all guys do it and thay like it ... ok the quertion is is that true do guys jerk off when that have a girl with them and thay can have sex
2007-08-24 08:01:17 · 22 answers · asked by baby #2 due Jan 17th 3 in Health ➔ Men's Health
yep, perfectly normal.
it is not really sex, more like relaxation., de-stressing.
now, if you want him to be REALLY happy and de-stressed
the next itme you find him jerkin, strip, smile, and well, you know.
have fun
2007-08-24 08:25:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
sometimes, you just want all the selfish attention on you and on your one goal to release all that tension without dealing with someone else, no matter how great the sex is. There are always minor fantasies that play a part, too: Mother-In-Law, work friends, etc. Doesn't take away from the pleasure or desireability of the current woman....just a different variation on sex. If you want him to stop....make him come more and be pleased with yourself without the necessity or obligation of reciprocation every now and then...he will worship you for it!
2007-08-24 10:16:49 · answer #2 · answered by beinggood 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As the old saying goes, 95% of men do it and the other 5% lie about it. I'm married and get it at home as often as I want but there are sometime that you just need to do it yourself. This doesn't mean that he isn't getting it enough from you or that you are not doing what he wants. Dont stress about it and don't hassel him about it. Even though we all do it it isnt something we talk about to everybody. Maybe he would like to do it in front of you or you in front of him for somehting different?
2007-08-24 10:57:17 · answer #3 · answered by darth72au 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Guys have a pretty strong urge to jerk off so it isn't surprising. It can even be a way of blowing off steam, sort of speak. Of course they should be doing it less often if in a relationship. Personally I think its better with a partner.
2007-08-24 14:36:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I truthfully like watching a man jerk off, I can help him and I think it is sexy, you should never take it personal as long as he is still having and making love to you. If you become involved it can be a total turn on for both of you, try it.
2007-08-24 17:33:09 · answer #5 · answered by baja QT 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yup I do it and I'm married. I ahve been doing it 8-10 times a week since I'm 12 years old. Every guy does it. It's normal.
2007-08-24 09:20:12 · answer #6 · answered by bigpoppapun33 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's normal. He could also be preparing himself for later that night. (it will last longer) Or maybe he knows you are going to come in and hopes it will turn him on. It can also release stress and gives him some alone time that he might need.
2007-08-24 08:48:10 · answer #7 · answered by parrothair3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is true, guys will jerk off married or not. Girl available or not, we are going to jerk off.
2007-08-24 11:11:30 · answer #8 · answered by Solo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes jerking off is fun to do even if you have a girl to have sex with but its even better if you have your partner to help you jerk off and give a helping hand
2007-08-24 09:21:20 · answer #9 · answered by jay b 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
One word. Normal. 95% of guys do/did masterbate. 4% don't. 1% unknown. Now I would be worried if he started looking/thinking about other women. Of course this is normal for some men, but I would ask him if he is tired of you. But really, it's nothing to be worried about.
2007-08-24 09:34:05 · answer #10 · answered by tcatron565 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry i am not a guy but thought i could help. my husband masturbates. this has never caused him to not want me. it is just something he does. of course he would rather be with me but that isn't always possible and sometimes that private time can help him feel less stressed. try not to be bothered by it, it is normal and probably healthy.
2007-08-24 09:33:43 · answer #11 · answered by adelaide 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋