this man my ex , still wants me but just 4 sex, but then says to me again the other night that he still loves me, and then wanted to get back together, but both have kids and its not right to get back together as of them if hes just going to play head games is it? Does this man actually mean what he says?Im so confused.
Hes asked me to go online later and chat, but he always get dirty about his fantasies and i hate that as not together. HELP. this is my 3 question.
2007-08-24 07:16:59 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
He is just spinning empty words to hold your heart, and knows that if he says the right thing you will give him what he wants.... it's all free talk he is very selfish and he's not taking your feelings into consideration tell him you was not put here for him or for his benefit..... whether you still love him or not don't yeild to his advances he will not respect you for it, don't make it easy for him..... if he still loves you... really loves you make him work for you, your worth more than just a quick roll in the hay when HE feels like it good luck.
2007-08-24 09:22:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
From all indications it appears the man has no regard for you as a person.You should only get back together with him if you also want him purely for sex.However that is not enough reason to be with someone;he should learn to appreciate other qualities in you than just sexuality.I don't think you really need to ponder a lot on this except if you've nothing else to offer men apart from sex.
2007-08-24 09:14:21 · answer #2 · answered by Sunshine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know this is not an easy time for you and when kids are involved it makes it harder. I know from experience that it sounds like mind games which are so cruel as you're emotionally attached. If a man plays there games they are to suit him and he is not taking how you feel into consideration. Try to heal the wounds and move on even though it is hard or he'll carry on knocking your self confidence. Be brave and strong. Good luck!
2007-08-24 07:36:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
this may be hard but you have to end it and for good. its just going to make you ill and stress both you and your kids out. he sounds like a player and you need much more than that. dont go online or if you do end it for good. take care ok. you dont say if your kids are his too. this may be a prob as you will prob still have contact with him over them. i wish you luck and strength.
2007-08-24 07:27:24 · answer #4 · answered by insatiable little yellow duckie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Most likely he just wants sex. You have to decide is that good enough. Recommend not.
2007-08-24 07:25:58 · answer #5 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i know the feeling iam bloke going through the same if u want to talk email me at tonymel@yahoo.co.uk or im me if u want to
2007-08-24 07:36:31 · answer #6 · answered by Mike 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hello, Sounds like a sick bastard give him the heave ho.
2007-08-28 05:20:11 · answer #7 · answered by Beau 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the only problem you have is not accepting he is a user
2007-08-25 01:29:48 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GET RID OF THIS MAN..HE IS JUST USING YOU ,YOUR WORTH BETTER
2007-08-24 07:37:27 · answer #9 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
keep away from him, Avoid him.
2007-08-24 07:25:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋