OKi I kno its weird...I 'think' I am bi..But aint convincing meself enough... Lol But nywaz...
Suddenly my mom told me that when she was young...She was a bit of a tomboy herself, and used to fancy girls..Of course I didnt tell her that me too...
Now she states that my father really liked to hang around gay guys (he's dead now)... I dont know what to do... Do you think that genetics are involved about being gay, etc...?
Answer plsplspls...I so dont want my children to have mixed up feelings like I do...N to worry and really fed up of their lives too!!
2007-08-24 06:57:04 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I am worried because of the fact that I have a boyfriend...I really love and respect him, but I keep getting this pics in my head about me and this best friend (whos a lesbo)!!
I just am really curious thats all...But I have to confront it with my mum if she ever had feelings for girls...Like me.
Sometimes I would really feel like being a total sluth!! Feeling like I wana really show off with guys...
N sometimes I would really feel like showing some certain pplz that im total a butch!!!!
I HATE DES FEELINGS!!!!!!!!!
2007-08-24 07:21:23 · update #1
I think that genetics play a big role in who we are, yes. But it's not an automatic "death sentance" as you seem to think it is.
There is nothing wrong or bad about being bisexual. Nothing. The only reason why you are having negative feelings about it is because of those enforced by society and religious types.
If you were to have children, and let them know early on that you respect them and love them and are willing to accept any decision they make with an open mind, you'd be surprised how much easier this transition would be. And because YOU know how it feels, it would probably make it so much easier for them as well.
Think about it. I hope this helps.
2007-08-24 07:05:25 · answer #1 · answered by Phillip C 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The only way you would "f" up your childrens life would be by not being honest with them. Be honest with your mother and yourself. I would think that if there were any thought of the sort, that one would be gay or bi. I dont think its confusing. Are you attracted to the same sex or not? Good day and good luck...
2007-08-24 14:10:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Research shows that it is partially genetic. but no gay genes or combination of genes has been found.
Of course if it's found to be physical or genetic someone may find a 'cure'.... Hmmm.
2007-08-24 14:04:37 · answer #3 · answered by robert2020 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, both my parents are straight, yet they still had me. They also had a few others who are straight. So, it may have something to do with genetics, but not the way you are thinking.
2007-08-24 14:07:27 · answer #4 · answered by Louie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am Gay and I think my dad is Bi! I never talk to hm but when I lived with him I remember finding Gay porn in his room!
Weird!!
2007-08-24 14:07:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
accept yourself
personal opinion: i believe it's genetic 75% of my intermediate family are gay
2007-08-24 14:53:17 · answer #6 · answered by ♥SPARKLES♥™ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there may be gay genes ,but nothing has been proven.it is alright to be gay however.dont let prejudice get the better of you
2007-08-24 14:04:33 · answer #7 · answered by woodsonhannon53 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have no idea but if it turns out to be genetic somehow..i will rub it in my dad's face so much he'll want to kill himself.
2007-08-24 14:05:38 · answer #8 · answered by Ethan S <3 Da Ben Dan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋