my twin sister found out that she is pregnant and me and my husband had been trying for the past 4 months?

Question

well me and my husband had a miscarriage about 5 months ago and we have been to get pregnant but not sucessed in doing so. this month Aug. me and my husband thought that we had got pregnant because we had sex on the day before and the day of ovulation but when Aug. 22 came around i started so another sad day. but anyways my twin sister just found out that she was pregnant and she told me today Aug. 24 and its been hard for me i have been upset all day how do i cope with this because i am having a hard time beening around here please help me?

Answer 1

you should be happy for your sister, not jealous.

the best way to get pregnant is to NOT TRY. it worked for me 3 times.

Answer 2

I understand what you mean. It's not that you don't want to be happy for your sister, it's just frustrating when you are having trouble and she isn't. My younger sister also told me that she is also trying for kids, only a very short time after she found out I am ttc. It kind of pissed me off, that now she's doing it. Again, not that she shouldn't also have kids, only that I feel like she is competing with me. Maybe that's just my interpretation. Nevertheless, I'll be pissed if she gets pregnant first. Hang in there, and keep trying. The thing to remember is just because she's pregnant doesn't mean you won't be, too!

Answer 3

I am really sorry to hear that. I had a miscarriage on June 10th. I was so excited that I had finally got pregnant and then it was all taken away from me. After that My cousin & sister-n-law were both pregnant. I was happy for them but also sad. I am also a Twin and I would love to have kids so that they could grow up together! Try tracking your bbt and cm on fertilityfriend.com. Good Luck and Baby Dust!

Answer 4

I'm sorry hun!! It is really upseting when you're trying and want a baby so bad...and then someone close to you tells you they're poregnant.

You just have to swallow hard and be very happy for her. You will want the same from her when your time comes. Its not her fault you and hubby haven't succeeded yet, and she can't help the fact that she conceived before you did.

Keep your chin up, maybe allow yourself this day to be jealous and sad and upset. Then tomorrow, take a deep breathe.....and keep focused on your goal of conceiving a child. I know your time will come soon!!

Good luck, and lots of baby dust your way!!!!

Answer 5

i don't be responsive to why your aunt thinks she's entitled to a million/2 the valuables, because of the fact she does not have been the inheritor on your sisters' assets, until eventually your sister left a will leaving her element of the valuables to the auntie (yet that is uncertain). If the solicitor grew to become into engaged on a sparkling will on your mom whether it grew to become into on no account signed, then shame on him/her. So, the element is, curiously like your mom's needs have been verbally communicated in front of your auntie and her daughter. Now, curiously we've a metamorphosis in the unique will, whether that is not signed. So the regulation is going to the unique will that grew to become into signed and usual because of the fact the final replica. whether, the solicitor ought to testify that the purposes have been made usual to the two executors in the past she died and that they are responsive to the purposes, they do exactly not want to persist with the extremely needs of the deceased. given which you're extremely a partial proprietor, while you at the instant are not residing in the residing house appropriate now, possibly you're able to desire to flow in anyway. enable your auntie situation approximately how she is going to deal with that. you're able to desire to be arranged to pay each and all the taxes, and so on. considering which will instruct which you're a resident proprietor and which you have each and every purpose of protecting the valuables. Then combat you auntie for her declare of a million/2. the main that i will see occurring is that she could get a million/3 of an pastime in the valuables, which she's claiming she has a million/2 of appropriate now. in case you are able to instruct that your mom needed to alter the want as at the instant as she did and that your aunt and her daughter have been the two made responsive to your mom's needs, then she ought to lose the full declare.

Answer 6

you should be happy for your sister, but keep trying. The best thing to do to get pregnant is not think about it so much. I know from when I got pregnant, and from when other people I know got pregnant that if you don't try too hard it will happen. Just don't use protection (obviously) and don't think "I want a baby so bad." because that will stress you out and can cause you to miscarry if you do get pregnant. Instead think to yourself. "I don't need to have a baby, but if it happens it happens." That way you will get pregnant, by psyching out your own mind. Belive me this does work! Also start taking pre-natal vitamins because this too can help you conceive. Hope this helps and good luck, hopefully you'll get pregnant soon and next summer you will have a little blessing of your own!

Answer 7

Just pray to God that all you can do.Ask him to grant you your wish.You have to do it in faith and beleive in him.I was angry when my little sister had a baby last year and I had four miscarriages.I been trying since I was 21 years old.Now I ask Jehovah to remember me like Hannah in the Bible did she had a son Samuel in the Bible.Not entirely like her she prayed that he be for Jehovah me also the same thing almost though.I am pregnant now.A miracle baby too cause the doctors told me that I wasn't pregnant until 3 Weeks ago.I am 28 Weeks.Be patience.It will come when you least expect it.I will pray for you.When Jehovah wants you to have it you will.I am 28 years old now.We all don't get what we want when we want it.Let God take care of it and you pray.

Answer 8

Mandy, i'm so sorry you're going through this, i can only imagine how hard and frustrating is, i think the good news is that you're fertile (you were pregnant before) but you should talk to your obgyn or an RE (fertility specialist) to make sure that all your basis are covered and when u get pregnant again be able to have a successful pregnancy....talk to your obgyn, also you can ask an RE online for free to get their opinion, try www.FertilityTies.com good luck!

Answer 9

when you are having trouble ttc it seems like every new pregnancy, even if its someone you love, is a slap in the face. Remeber this, you know you CAN get pregnanat, so its just a matter of time. It may take a little time for you to feel happy for your sister, but don't let her know that right now. She is excited and wants everyone to share inher joy, and she deserves that.

Answer 10

4 months is not that long a time. Don't worry, you'll have your happy day soon. I know it's diffcult to be happy, when you go through so much, but just hang in there. Take care of your health, and smile.

Answer 11

Stop trying. I miscarried my first pregnancy as well. And found out that most women DO miscarry their first pregnancy. And most of those women don't even know that they are pregnant and pass it off as a heavy period, early period, late period.....etc. But seriously, stop trying. My husband and I tried for 2 years to conceive. Decided to enroll in school to become an airplane pilot and a registered nurse.......well, 2 MONTHS later, I found out I was pregnant. I know it sounds like a "wive's tale" but it worked for me...Good Luck!!