the guy got married long ago n i m still single (by choice), i m busy n happy wid wot life has to offer, initially i did get bitter wen things failed but in a few months i realised marriage wid the gut would have been much worse so it was good the things went, he was completely out of my mind n is still so, except that sometimes i see their car (not him) on the road, nothing personal tho!, but of late i have noticed this guy frequently comes in my dream either trying to talk to me or just observing me i don't know why n i m pretty confused as i know very well i had moved out of him long back n i was in sort of a communication with some other guy whom i still like ( he has also got married), i m not the kind to hanker on for anyone/anything i take life the way it leads me as thats the best course.
2007-08-23 22:32:39 · 3 answers · asked by simplynuts 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Mythology & Folklore
Can I be completely honest with you? I think that you are not as "over" this person as you may think. And many times, more often than not, we say that we are- in an effort to push ourselves there. And we can't force ourselves to just let go of everything that we experienced. Our very nature makes us quite the opposite. My advice? Think about what this guy represents to you- what he entails in your life. Then relate it to the dream.
"i'm not the kind to hanker on for anyone/anything i take like the way it leads me as thats the best course." ~ This is an honorable way of thinking, but consider this: the only place life truely takes us is death. You control that journey in between. Start communicating with the people around you- especially spouses/partners/mates, and know that it's okay to feel a certain way.
hope everything works out for the best...
Blessed Be,
~*K
2007-08-24 01:33:27 · answer #1 · answered by ~*Live, Love and Blessed Be*~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Car
A Car is an indication of your dependence and degree of control you have on your life. To see a parked car in your dream, suggests that you need to turn your efforts and energies elsewhere. You may be needlessly spending your energy in a fruitless endeavour. Alternatively, a parked car my symbolize your need to stop and enjoy life. To dream that you cannot find where you parked your car, suggests that you do not know where you want to go in life.
Road
To see a road in your dream, indicates your sense of direction and pursuit of your goals. To see a winding and bumpy road in your dream, signifies that will find many obstacles and setbacks toward your goals. You may be met with unexpected difficulties. If the road is dark, then it reflects the darker or more frightening choices which you have made or are making.
To see a smooth road bordered by green trees and flowers, denotes a steady progress and steady climb up the social ladder. If the road is straight and narrow, then it means that your path to success is going according as planned.
To see an unknown road in your dream, signifies that you new project will cause more grief than it is worth and a waste of time.
To dream that a threatening creature is on a road, parallels a hostile situation/person you are encountering in your waking life. It is an obstacle that you need to overcome, no matter how intimidating the situation or person may appear.
Man
To see a man in your dream, denotes the masculine aspect of yourself - the side that is assertive, rational, aggressive, and/or competitive. If the man is known to you, then the dream may reflect you feelings and concerns you have about him.
I hope this gives you some insight
Love & Blessings
Milly
2007-08-24 03:15:40 · answer #2 · answered by milly_1963 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
^Your not over him, maybe in your mind but not in your heart. When you find a new love you will stop having those dreams.
It's not always easy to let go, even when you know you should. There is still a part of you that cares for him and wants what he has, even if it's not with him. Good luck, sweet dreams.
2007-08-24 15:29:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋