I'm getting kindof scared!
A few days ago, I had this weird craving and I found out that it was 4 sex! I don't want to have it and I'm trying to ignore it, but when I'm just sitting around doin nothing, its weird!
Plz give me good advice or I will report you!
2007-08-23 17:38:20 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
It isn't weird,it's normal.Our flesh will lust and we must fight that battle until the day we are called home.I once heard Zig Ziegler say," stinking thinking in means stinking thinking out"
So when those urges come read your bible,pray,talk to a christian friend or all of the above.
2007-08-23 17:51:11 · answer #1 · answered by cale11 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Granted, there are a few people out there that are truly asexual--those that don't have sex, but the majority of people out there are sexual beings. You can do research if ya want on all the hormones and other natural chemicals within the body that will make a person 'horny' to see for yourself.
From my personal experience with absentence, ignoring the cravings usually just make it worse. hehheee kinda like when ya have to use a toilet but one is available, and ya start doing the pee pee dance...heheheee.
There are the 'cold shower' or exercise approaches that can help stave off such cravings, another is comfort eating but not recommend just makes ya as big as a house and makes ya feel worse in the end, which just creates the need for MORE comfort eating.
Though this craving might not be for 'sex', but rather closeness or intimacy. A feeling to be connected.
Good Luck
2007-08-24 00:50:49 · answer #2 · answered by Lion Jester 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is difficult to know what to say because you never said how old you are.
But, I can tell you this much. Having an urge and actually acting on it is an entirely different thing all together. EVERYBODY has those feelings every now and then and it is completely normal. It's all part of growing up, and you will get used to the feelings, sooner or later.
Be careful talking with friends on these things. Many will lie so they appear more "mature."
2007-08-24 00:44:58 · answer #3 · answered by tkquestion 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How did you find out that it was for sex? Did you like.. have sex and the feeling went away? If so, have more sex. But use protection!
The urge for love makin isn't anything to be ashamed of or worried about. I mean, your concern would be warranted if you discovered you were craving the taste of human flesh or something. But, nah... not this.
Get a vibrator.
Toodles.
2007-08-24 00:46:03 · answer #4 · answered by leah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have the sign of puberty.It is normal .You must avoid sitting alone without doing nothing.You must make a busy activities in line with your hobbies such as reading,writing a novel,jogging ,painting,rasing flower plants or other beneficial activities.You must maintain your virginity because it is a sacred part of your body that can only be given to your formal and legal husband. when you have been married.Masturba
tion is allowed in line with religion as long as it does not harm your virginity.
2007-08-24 02:23:01 · answer #5 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be perfectly honest, I've had that feeling before. What I've learned to do is simply masterbate for a few minutes. Maybe load a video of girls kissing while I'm doing it.
I know it's not what most people would want to hear, but it will at least calm your "appetite".
2007-08-24 00:44:28 · answer #6 · answered by red92fh 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
"Plz give me good advice or I will report you!"
I would answer... but that is no way to be friendly. People try to help. The least you can do is appreciate it. And to me, that is pretty good advice.
2007-08-24 07:56:20 · answer #7 · answered by sparkle 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's probably puberty. Don't rush into anything and make sure you have proper protection. Stay safe. If you want to talk further look me up and I'll be an ear you can talk to.
2007-08-24 00:45:22 · answer #8 · answered by M J 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i just need some more details...are you gay and you are having sex thoughts with another girl, OR are you straight and have fantasies about having sex with men?
regardless, you don't have to be scared. it's probably just your hormones getting all jumpy (maybe because you just saw someone you like). and it's okay to have these feelings! we all do! and you don't have to act on them; if you don't want to have sex, then don't.
soooo just try to keep yourself more occupied and tire yourself out, so when you get home, you want to go straight to bed (by yourself!!)
2007-08-24 00:44:53 · answer #9 · answered by viva las vegas 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes touching yourself there can relieve that craving. Just lock your bedroom door before you try it.
2007-08-24 00:45:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋