need some advise,, what to do?

Question

ok well i got pregnat i really dont want it but my boyfriend do'es i cant stand the thought of something growing in side of me.it creaps me out a lump of flesh growing in side of me yuck. i really want to get rid of it! i have no problem with an abortion. my boy friend offered me $6000.00 to have it . i want more money to have it maybe 15,000.00 or so. is that a good price to have it or should i just have it sucked out of me . any advise on this will help

Answer 1

I don't know if you are for real or not. You posted this a year ago:

Some advice please?
i just found out im preagent and the farther of the featus is a married man that i have been seeing for about a year now
i already have 2 kids and can take care of another one
but he wants me to get an abortion
so should i get an abortion or should i just black mail him or tell his wife . and then sue him for child support
some help please

1 year ago - 56 answers

Then you posted this:

If he only knew?
I have been cheating on my husband with a younger and better looking man for 4 months now. i am thinking of throwing my husband and 2 kids out of the house . i know that i willget the house because i am a woman .what would be the best way to get them out of the house so it will be all mine .

8 months ago - 32 answers

Your profile says this:

About me: 30 YEARS OLD AND I DO AS I WANT
AND IF THAT UPSETS SOME ONE TOO BAD !!
i am italian/american and a free spirit let the good times roll imnot dead yet
rock n roll rules and when people e amil me with complaints on my questions or answers i will reply back just as nasty as they were . life is fun and i am well off and very secure.. money is no issue to me i have every thing i ever wanted and can afford almost anything i want .

So, if you've got it so put together, why do you come on here to ask for advice about your life?

I know you get lots of nasty feedback. I'm not going to add to it because I think that's what you want--to see how many self-righteous answerers you can get and then laugh your head off at them to somehow make yourself feel better about a sorry life.

At any rate, I hope you are bluffing. If you're not, I would say keep your baby (or consider adoption), and stop putting yourself in these situations. I don't know what kind of a life you have, but there is definitely a better way to enjoy your life. I hope you find what you're looking for.

Answer 2

At first, I just wanted to call you very bad names, but what I think is really happening is that you are scared. I know I hated children, and did not want to have any. When I 1st found out I was pregant at age 19, my 1st thought was to abortion. I even called an abortion clinic, but thank god, I could not afford it, and the nearest place at the time was too far away. I'm begging you please, to reconsider. It is not a blob of flesh growing inside of you, it is a beautiful son or daughter, who will change your life forever, (in the best possible way). My daughter (that pregnancy) is now 23, and I love her with all my heart. She has made me so happy and has given me two beautiful, smart, talanted granddaughters. I even went on to have another daughter, who has also given me two beautiful, smart and talented granddaughters. So all together I have two daughters and 4 granddaughters. Who I would not give up for anything in the world, and would KILL and DIE for!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! You say $6,ooo is not enough and you want $15,000. Trust me, in the future, your children and grandchildren are PRICELESS!!! I would not take Millions, for any one of them. If you really cannot connect with this child, please have it, look into it's face, give it a chance, and if all else fails, give it up for adoption!!!!!!!!!!! Someone out there will give it a loving home, and will raise it to be a great person. Please do not KILL an innocent life. It is not the baby's fault, it is yours for not taking the necessary precauctions. Your child could end up changing the world, with or without you!!!!!!!! Your LOSS!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Proud mom and grandma.

Answer 3

Life is the most precious thing in the world and you have to power to create it and it "creaps" you out? You want your boyfriend to pay you to not "get rid of it"? My sister would do anything to be able to have a child (she finally got pregnant and had a miscarriage), and you want to "have it sucked out of you"? Listen Princess, have the baby, give it to someone who has a heart and then keep your legs closed from now on. You're a sick, selfish person. I'll pray for you. And the only advice I can give is: if you can't figure out how to spell anything then use spell check you dumb b*tch.

Answer 4

This is a decision only you can make, it is something you have to think through and explore all options in depth. If you are comfortable with abortion there is nothing wrong with having one. If you decide to have one it is entirely your choice. So if you think that is best for you then your boyfriend has no say. If you are willing to carry this pregnancy through to birth and can reach an agreement with the father, the, again, the decision is up to you as to the incentive you need to give birth. Only you know what it is worth to you. However, there may be some legal issues if you decide this route so it would be best to get legal advice, and papers drawn up, and signed by both of you. You do not have too much time to decide on all of this because if you do decide to have the abortion it is easier to have it as early as possible.

Answer 5

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Answer 6

I'm going to be totally honest

Get rid of it!
that is why we have that option in this society

I am a mother of 1 child which i had at the age of 18yrs and if i knew of the day after pill i would have takin it
and by the time i thought of abortion it was to late.
Children just complicate your life if you have goals and dreams it just easier to try and fulfill them without a child.
And girl the money does not even compensate for the PAIN!

Reasons not to have a baby:

1. Travel
2. NightLife
3. Stretchmarks
4. 1 year of sleepless nights
5. Hard to Lose Weight

also don't forget the partner you have now might not be the partner you have in the future that would mean dead beat DADDY.

Thats just my opinion.

Answer 7

Okay, so I have had two miscarriages and a still born; so to see that something as precious as life creeps you out, really hurts deep to my bones. I have had to bury a child that my husband and I wanted badly. Listen, there are people like me out there who want children and have problems having them. Give your baby to one of them or to your boyfriend who wants it. No price can be put on a human life and for you to think so angers me. Imagine if your mother were to have put a price on your life, what do you think your worth? This is really a question you should have probably kept to yourself. Sex is an adult decision and you sound very young and immature; I think you are to young for what comes with adult decisions. Good Luck with your life, and I pray you give your baby a good home and a chance for a wonderful life.

Answer 8

that is the most horrible thing i have ever heard in my life...you are a rude and unthoughtful person...if you are responsible enough to have sex then you need to be ready for the consequenses which in your case means having a baby...there are millions of women out in the world who CAN'T have a baby and you want money to have yours...you are a discrace to all women

Answer 9

being sexually active means that you choose to take responsibility for whatever consequences come, like getting pregnant.

please do not have an abortion. stick with it for the short amount of time that it takes and give the baby up for adoption. there are thousands of parents out there who cannot get pregnant and have their own children and would be thrilled to have your baby.

Answer 10

Sweetie...therapy.