why can't i be like everyone else and fit in?

Answer 1

Just be yourself

Answer 2

Not everyone else fits in, in fact you've probably not seen them around so you can't really make that observation. However, if you want to fit in, and you don't fit in now, then just change your style. Sometimes fitting in though means doing illegal stuff and for kicks or for competition, even in a career/job. It may not be for you.

Answer 3

Why would you want to fit in with everyone else. Look around you. The general public is very superficial. You should maintain your position of not fitting so that you can always have the broad scope of being on the outside looking in.

Answer 4

Why would you want to be like everyone else? The way I see it, the real people you want to be like are the ones that have the courage to stand outside the boxes and be their own person. Only cowards fit into the popular circles.

Answer 5

some of these hypocrites will tell you to just be yourself and don't fit in while some of them try hard to fit in and be like everyone else like followers bunch pathetic people, anyway not to fit in is the most beautiful thing if your not weak minded like most just do whatever you want to do and remember to fit in is to care what others think so do not give a care.

Answer 6

Actually you do fit in and you are like everyone else it is just that you aren't comfortable being yourself. That is what you need to work on. You need to relax and be yourself!

Answer 7

Being an individual apart from the norm is more intriguing than being like everyone else. Just be yourself and enjoy life.

Answer 8

dont even think like that, fitting in means that you are just like everyone else, all the same, noone unique, just plain old boring, you could be the smart one, the one who is different, the one who is who they are, not who everyone else is. so just be urself, and ppl will look up 2 u and respect you for who you are, and what you believe in.

Answer 9

Why would you want to be everyone else?! They're all the same...there's no other "you" out there and that's pretty cool.

As far as fitting it...I've been trying to solve that equation, and stay true to myself, for years...ongoing...

Answer 10

well, it would be help if you try to be more specific.

i could sympathize with you.

i felt the same way years back and i've learned that fitting in isn't exactly the same as being everyone else.

i was really scared of people trying to avoid me for being who i am.

now that i'm 17 and in college, i've learned to fit in by showing all of them that i'm somebody diffferent. different but in a good way.

i tend to show them that they couldn't be possibly right all the time. when i feel that they're treating me as an inferior being, i show them that i'm a force to be reckoned with and show them where i could excel at. they usually remain flabbergasted for a bit but they snap out of it and realize that i'm not as stupid as i appear to be.

now if you couldn't fit in because you feel that you're of a higher class of human species then that's different. is suggest that you try to focus your sights on others's feelings more often and try to be as selfless as possible,

hope i helped.

Answer 11

When you are young being on the outside looking in can be very disturbing. I forced myself to fit in when I was young, and now I truly enjoy my solitude. You will find your way, don't judge your insides by other peoples outsides.