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not bothered?
outraged?
no opinion?
I'm only asking this because the Politics section of YA is filled with more conservatives then progressives. And honestly I don't see how people can say that homophobia is ok & I'm straight.
2007-08-23 16:27:48 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
It annoys me a lot. And I'm glad you brought this up.
It is NOT okay to lack tolerance and a basic respect for each other. If anyone takes a little bit of effort to talk to gay people or really try to understand what it is like, they would not see homosexuality as an "issue" that they can be for or against.
It is like saying that I disagree with being Puerto Rican. Or that I am against left-handedness. How can you turn something that's part of a person into a topic for debate, like school vouchers or the health care system? Being gay is WHO I AM and it is not up for debate.
2007-08-23 17:19:53 · answer #1 · answered by Surely Funke 6 · 5⤊ 0⤋
His question and opinion did not outrage or bothered.
My opinion is having any fear/phobia of a certain thing/people/lifestyle is negative, bad, or wrong. just like other phobia's the one that came to mind when I read his question was xenophobia. But most people have a fear of something some more than others and fear can be good because it can save your life. For example if every one was gay/lesbian the human species would cease to exist without technology in this case it would save us from extinction.
2007-08-23 20:20:28 · answer #2 · answered by bayarealatino925 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel he is typical of people so obsessed with proving other people wrong he has lost touch with reality. Homophobia is not just the literal etymology of the word "fear" of homosexuals it encompasses the end result of fear and that is hate http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Homophobia
I am not outraged because I am too used to people desperately looking for justification for hate and bigotry. I am bothered by anyone with animosity to people different than them.
On a side-note I find the detail about reporting an answer interesting since he committed a violation by chatting in details.
2007-08-23 17:09:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
I feel that everyone is entitled to their opinion...including homophobes. I don't agree with the comment that is is a lifestyle CHOICE, but I am who I am and am happy with my life. For me, when people start using their fears or feelings against a particular group as an excuse to harass or harm that group, then I feel that crosses the line. A good discussion about issues both pro and con is healthy for society.
2007-08-23 16:42:01 · answer #4 · answered by Bridget C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm
Well, I'm kind of bothered. There seems to not be a lot of knowledge on the subject for some of the people
Homophobe doesn't necessarily mean someone is afraid of homosexuals, it means people feel uncomfortable around gay people or specifically avoid them because they're gay.
And then, political correctness does not demand acceptance, it demands respect, which -everyone- is entitled too.
There is apparently a lot of people who like throwing around the word "lifestyle" and "choice" too...yay...more ignorance.
I guess you do what you can to educate people.
2007-08-23 16:40:38 · answer #5 · answered by The Smile Man 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
First I'd like to clarify that the term is "Liberal"not "Progressive". Progressive was created as a cover up for the extremists. Second, he's entitled to his opinion just as we are entitled to disagree with it. Someone must have called him a homophobe for a reason. But I find it interesting that he went out of his way to list the gay people he knows. usually that's the hallmark of a bigot. So he probably IS homophobic on some level and is just incapable of seeing it right now.
2007-08-23 16:36:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
I agree. If people are homophobic then that's fine, they're entitled to their opinion, as long as they don't bad-mouth or criticise homesexuals. But what I think it is so messed up that when people think of homosexuality they instantly think of the sexual things, and then try to make gay people feel dirty & perverse. Nobody ever thinks of the love and the part of enjoying life with someone else, of having someone always by your side, of having that one person who only has to hug you and everything is ok - If a straight person comes along and says they're engaged ... do you all instantly think of how that person has sex? Or of that person kissing their fiance? Cos if you do then I'd say you're the perverted ones. Most people are instantly happy for that person having found love, or someone they can share their life with. So why is it different with gay people? They still love, care and enjoy their lives the same as straight people. My mum was married to my dad for 10 years, they divorced and she met a woman who she started seeing .... her being a lesbian did not change who she was - she is still the same mum who drove me to school, did my hair when I was a little girl ... the same mum who loves to eat popcorn and maltesers at the movies, the same mum who loves to visit little markets with me, the same mum who cares about me and loves to be part of my life. Nothing about her changed! She just made a new addition to her life. And it did not have a negative affect on my upbringing, cos I know thats what some people say about gay couples who want to adopt ... if anything I'm a more patient and accepting person, not just of gay people but of anyone who is 'different' Nothing makes me happier than to see my mum happy in love ... who are we to criticise someone's love?? She is happier now than she was in her marriage & I know this just by observing her ... so how can you say its wrong for people to choose what really makes them happy. The next time someone makes you feel like dirt about something you have a passion for, or the next time your parents or friends say they don't like your partner ... remember you're kinda doing the same thing. And it hurts, trust me! If its the sexual orientation that you're having a go at then why don't you have a go at child molesters, rapists, people who are into beastiality ... cos I think that's far more sickening and messed up than someone experiencing mutual love with their partner.
2007-08-23 18:04:55 · answer #7 · answered by Sammy-jo87 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I answered the guys question and simply said that if someone has a negative opinion then it shouldnt be shared!!! I dont agree with it.....fair enough they have a "fear" but the way you act when coming into contact or "facing your fears" says alot about who you are and if that isnt good then you should reconsider ur actions!!!!!!
So those who have the problem should just GET OVER IT!!!! and get on with their lives instead of filling it with dislikes and hates.................and with lame excuses to go see a therapist to get a diagnosis of having this thing about gay people!!!
I have heaps of gay friends and I LOVE THEM!!!!! They are so great to be with!!! Also if u are one of those who disagrees with me........grow up and its ur life stop worryin bout wat else is goin on!!!
Peace ppl :o)
2007-08-24 01:29:04 · answer #8 · answered by Resor 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am not gay, but of a bisexual heart and mind. I don't care how one feels about homosexuality, or LGBT, if only they do not attack the same. They might express any phobia or dislike that they intend, so long as it are not misused towards some injury.
2007-08-23 18:29:22 · answer #9 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He can say whatever he wants..
It bothers me a little.. but I couldnt care less.
If he really is fine being a homophobe, go ahead.. at least he said he aint bashing us or anything. But whatever it is, those are just opinions of a few people.. just let it go, I guess...
2007-08-23 21:38:48 · answer #10 · answered by Deena 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋