by being rude, ignorant, oblivious of those around you, having zero manners, no class & believing you are AWESOME regardless ........ not a great way to go
If you want to improve your confidence, have a long hard think about what you don't like about yourself & do something about it ie:
If you know you are overweight - exercise & eat better & loose some weight
If you think you are not that smart or feel inferior - educate yourself, open university, learn a language, read up on politics whatever interests you
If you think you are ugly - get a new hairstyle, get a professional make-over & buy products that suit you & learn how to apply them (never compare yourself to Hollywood/magazines - they are all airbrushed to look perfect so forget about them)
If you hate your job & feel underpaid, un-appreciated - think hard about what you would really like to do & what you want to get paid, be realistic about your abilities - then go do the course you need to, get a degree, whatever & start your new career
When you are happy with yourself & your life (includes career 'cos most of us have to work, right ??!!) then you will not feel the need to be arrogant & full of yourself as the people who are like that are generally full of s*** & so insecure it's ridiculous & really very sad ......
2007-08-23 17:03:11
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answered by Mari C 3
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Well lets start with some simple exercises;
1. No matter your height always try a look down on people.
2. Even if you don't know what your talking about, make it up, imagine you're right at all times.
3. Also know this, even if your standing next to Kate Moss and George Clooney, you are the best looking and most charming person in the room.
4. People should be grateful for your presence and attention.
5. You mustn't feel lonely when you realise you are so superior you can't have an equal.
That will do for today.
2007-08-23 18:57:53
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answered by Anonymous
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I love this question; you get a star.
The key is to find the one thing you are best at, and try to make it seem more important in life than it actually is. Whether its football, theater, academics, underwater basket-weaving, competitive bed-making, or whatever, find your niche. Then, surround yourself with people who are not as good as you, but are close. And make sure that this group cares about said talent, so they are jealous of you or in competition with you.
For an example, consider your stereotype dumb, football-playing jock. He goes through high school, flunking all his classes, but starring as his school's best quarterback. Football becomes the most important thing in life to him, because it's the only thing that keeps his self-confidence at astronomical levels. Then, after he graduates, no DI colleges offer him any scholarships to play. He was good, but not quite among the very best. So what does he do? He signs up for community college where the talent level is lower, and just plays there. He's still a superstar in his own little world, even though he has intentionally (and subconsciously) placed himself in a lower tier of competition so that he can ensure he excels. Make sense?
Follow the steps outlined above, and I promise you that feelings of superiority will follow. Just remember that by doing so, you will be handicapping yourself for the rest of your life, as your fear of losing that feeling of being better than everyone else will forever hold you down and keep you from meeting your full potential.
Good luck, I guess.
2007-08-23 16:59:44
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answered by Anonymous
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Put your self in a situation of life you've never been in before and that you will find a real challenge in and your confidence will grow dramaticaly once you realise that much of lifes difficulties are not so difficult and that you have probally got more strengths than you realise. After beeing in a situation like this and coming back to your roots then you'll feel more wholesome. Arrogence is not nessisarily a good thing unless your an absolute genius! Like me :)
2007-08-23 16:40:46
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answered by Jabba_da_hut_07 4
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You are already there big guy. By the way, when all your friends get smart and tell you to take a hike, then you will realize how arrogant and full of yourself you really are. Have fun sonny.
2007-08-27 21:51:10
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answered by johny0802 4
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As a black man you can always feel Superior because it wasn't your people that caused two world wars, numerous religious conflicts causing thousands of lives, spread disease around the world, corrupted other cultures with greed, invented the atomic bomb, polluted the planet and has caused global warming, However, you have benefited from the excesses of the western culture. Like so many "Superior" people, you let other people do the hard work and sit back and reap the re wards!
2007-08-23 23:00:12
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answered by purplepeace59 5
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There's a book called Kiss my Tiara, for girls and women. Read it.
If that's what you really want to be more arrogant and full of yourself, then be committed to do what it takes to have what you want.
Just remember karma, and what goes around comes back around ten fold.
Make sure you are strong enough to handle the consequences for your actions before you act.
Nice matters!
2007-08-23 16:36:55
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answered by Anonymous
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Repeat these affirmations in your head until they become a part of your subconscious.
I am better than other people simply because I think so
My needs and wants are more important than other peoples' needs and wants
I am right and they are wrong, regardless of the situation
People should always listen to what I have to say, regardless of how uninformed or abrasive I am
When I mistakes, it the other peoples' fault or the world's fault. And when I succeed all the credit belongs to me
2007-08-23 16:35:05
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answered by Subconsciousless 7
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Tell the truth, if u r being honest it doesn't matter whether it's a nice thing to say or not. Apparently that makes u arrogant
2007-08-24 04:10:16
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answered by Anonymous
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Shave your head and leave a wide strip in the middle and dye it bright pink.
Call your self revolutionWillNot
And ask a question about how you can be more arrogant and full of yourself.
2007-08-23 16:56:48
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answered by Astro 5
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