I've gained 50 lbs. since I've been married (4 yrs.), I'm 5'6" and 180lbs, I'm feeling really bad right now. Do any of you prefer women like me and why or why not?
2007-08-23 16:01:34 · 12 answers · asked by Violet 5 in Health ➔ Men's Health
Actually, I don't like men that are too thin or muscular. I like them tall and stocky.
2007-08-23 16:10:11 · update #1
I've discovered that my partner's mind, spirit, and soul are far more important to me than mere physical attributes. Most of us will grow old and get out of shape at some point. Wouldn't it be good to value that which is most important?
Unfortunately, our culture and media is materialistic. That leads to us valuing the packaging rather than what's inside. Some men will junk the old model and get a new one for superficial reasons.
If you are healthy, don't worry about your weight.
If not, your health is far more important. To assure good cardiovascular health, I'd ease into an aerobic exercise program and make sure to eat a good diet avoiding excess calories, fats, animal protein, and portions. If you smoke or drink, give it up. Take supplements if necessary. Watch your blood pressure. Get enough good sleep each night. I suggest that you keep your heart rate and breathing elevated for a period of .5 hrs to 1.0 hrs (an "aerobic exercise") five times per week. Incorporate this into your daily routine somehow. Don't worry about weight and perception. Some of that is genetic and some behavior. Work on your physical fitness. You can be a fit and healthy heavy person, although you are likely to lose a lot of weight just by focusing on your health.
2007-08-23 16:24:55 · answer #1 · answered by Skeptic 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋
I personally like a woman that is in shape. She doesn't have to be a 10 but she needs to be fit , but this is just my preference and I don't look down on overweight people just because they are large.
2007-08-23 23:42:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I like a bit of fat as long as it's in the right places.....180 lbs is not bad at all for your height. I don't find obese women attractive though.
You're not fat....you're just...pleasantly plump lol
2007-08-24 20:51:19 · answer #3 · answered by GH 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why of course, not all men are just so shallow. Many like a woman with some meat
2007-08-24 00:18:01 · answer #4 · answered by Realplayer 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I love big girls. My wife is big and beautiful to me. I love her so much. I love big girls because they can't run fast when I chase them around the house. Lol nah I do like a girl with some meat on her bones.
2007-08-24 16:26:16 · answer #5 · answered by bigpoppapun33 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1st. define fat. are u happy whith ur self.how doesur husband feel.can u look ur self in the mirror and get u self hot and wet.if yes u sexy and built.if not u need 2 look deeper
2007-08-24 00:04:19 · answer #6 · answered by cliff b 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If a fat girl still has a pretty face, i would say she can still get a good man. probably wont be me, no offense its just not my type.
2007-08-23 23:19:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
don't feel bad your not very overweight ( i dont even think your overweight imo) and it would be easy to lose those few extra pounds
2007-08-23 23:07:21 · answer #8 · answered by oxpr0x 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Personally I don't, you might check with Donkey off of Shrek, ya know he likes big butts.
2007-08-23 23:09:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 3⤋
I was going around with one , but that don't care , if love comes comes..
I f your man loves you thst would not care.
n less he don't love you.
2007-08-23 23:30:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋