sometimes i feel that life is goin to just take me down and out! nothing in life that i wanted for myself has come out that way i would have wanted...
i not that its not always goin to be my way but my whole life is that this!!! soooo
Do you believe things will work out in the end?.....
what is your story!
2007-08-23 15:55:23 · 15 answers · asked by Im addicted to the memory of him 3 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
You seem to be a cool person, don't let it get you down. There's always someone out there in a worse state so remember it, atleast you're alive.Life's bittersweet for anyone but you need to find a hobbie or a pal that helps get you through the rough and focus more on the good. I thought the same thing a few years ago. I was with a girl for 2 years that I fell in love with and stopped hanging out with my friends to be with her more so needless to say I burned some very important bridges in my life. I thought about her every second I wasn't around her and turned down some pretty good offers to date other people. One night I walked in on her having sex with some other guy in our room, after ripping his face off I left her. A week later she said she had been pregnant with my kid for over a month but didn't know how to tell me. I've always wanted a kiddo so despite her bullcrap I went back to be a father. I never could trust her after that, each day left me wondering if the kid was even mine and whos bed she was sleeping in while I was at work putting in 70+ hours a week. She became hell to live with, after a hard days work I came home to a dirty house, no dinner or laundry done so basically I worked from the time I woke up till I went to bed which only left like 4 hours to sleep. We had the child and after being so wrapped up in everything I didn't ask for a blood test which I should have. We stayed together for another 6-7 months after she was born and I continued paying ALL the bills so she could stay home with the baby. In the back of my mind I kept wondering if I was taking care of someone elses kid so that ate me up on a daily basis. One day I came home and got yelled at because I wanted to take a day off from work due to an ear ache so I just grabbed a few trash bags, loaded up my crap in my diesel and drove away. I loved the child but I would rather be a parent that didn't live in the same house than have her grow up listening to me and her mother fight everyday. Of course she told everyone that I couldn't handle it so I jumped ship which wasn't true but none the less ruined my reputation in town and with a few friends. We went to court to pay child support and I pushed for a paternity test just to settle my nerves. The test came back and she was my daughter which put a long needed smile on my face. They bent me over in court for child support because they seen I had pushed for a blood test so despite me telling them it was because the mother commited adultry they saw me as some punk male that wasn't doing my job which we all knew was complete bullsh!t. Here we are more than a year later and I have never look forward to anything more than seeing my kiddo every other day. That long, bumpy road has left me a new person and i'm thankful for it. Now I have my self esteem back and even more so I have confidence and responsibility. I won't ever be chained down to a partner again and I appreciate the little things much more too. You'll be just fine, just keep looking up at the clouds because atleast your chin will be up. Take care hun
2007-08-23 19:33:04 · answer #1 · answered by Just keep breathin' 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Things" always work themselves out in the end. But not always to the end one would wish. That's life. The joy is in the journey, even looking back at the rough patches and disappointments. It's an adventure, which by their nature a bound to be discomforting. The trick is to embrace it. With all the wins and many losses of my own life I found there's a profit in almost everything, if you're willing to look for it, and redefine what you see as a profit. That doesn't mean you get what you want (and anyway when you do it sometimes can be devastatingly disappointing!). But you can learn to enjoy what you've got, and be glad of the chance to chase what you choose. It's a rare thing - and brief.
2007-08-23 17:42:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be honest, no one can really know what the end is like; whether we all find peace, but I would like to believe that we are not all just wandering about in this world without a purpose. I would imagine life as a series of beginnings and endings; of comings and goings. We are not always entitled to what we fight for, and there are battles that we will often lose. I do know one thing: You have to look at what you have in life and not what you have lost. If you fail a test, you may have lost the grade, but you have gained a drive to improve. If you lose a friend, you have gained memories that will stay with you forever. Times are hard sometimes, but picking yourself up again is what makes you stronger.
Why do we fall?
To pick ourselves up again.
2007-08-23 16:19:55 · answer #3 · answered by short one 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All I know is that at age 33 I've been places and done things I never would have thought at age 18 that I'd ever do, and I mean that in a good way. So, if you keep trying, things will work out. Doesn't mean there won't be bumps in the road too, but there will be good times. I think it's all about the journey.
2007-08-23 16:05:08 · answer #4 · answered by CNJRTOM 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been through lots of ups and downs in my life and every time I reached a low point I thought it was the end of everything but it wasn't.You will come out of things OK if you work at it .
2007-08-23 16:08:31 · answer #5 · answered by jesbud51 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As you grow older your goals and dreams will change and when you are REALLY old then you'll probably be happy the way your life turned out, even if it wasn't perfect. So, yes, things might work out. However, it depends on what you do with your life, I suppose.
2007-08-23 16:05:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course all things work out in the end. Just not the vision of the end you may have expected.
All roads lead to enlightenment.
2007-08-23 16:54:18 · answer #7 · answered by LBee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe things work out the way they are supposed to. So Keep positive and Believe in yourself.(It works wonders)
2007-08-23 16:04:36 · answer #8 · answered by Tivogal 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course it will! sure sometimes life will have bad things to offer what you just need to be strong and life may have a surprise at the end!
2007-08-23 16:04:17 · answer #9 · answered by Gaby T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We can hope things will "work out" - for various defination of "work out"
I just worry about the constant aim for "Closure" when it is an impossible aim.
My Ex aint suddendly going to get a personality transplant, nor will he make any attempt to apologise for things he refuses to see as being wrong.
All "closure" I can get is for a/ his (unstable) diabeties will kill him or b/ his daughter realises quickly what a total Git he's become.
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2007-08-24 01:23:07 · answer #10 · answered by Rai A 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋