Honestly, it feels like i have nothing to offer to this world. I know i'm smart, but i always say the wrong thing. I have talents, but it seems like i'll never "stand out." I'm somewhat attractive, but i feel as though no girls are interested in me. I just don't know what to do about it.
what are some ways to boost my self-confidence?
2007-08-23 15:14:08 · 5 answers · asked by blu boi 3 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Join the military. You will be challenged and mature.
2007-08-23 16:29:05 · answer #1 · answered by Kuntree 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make a list of your positive and negative qualities. Work on enhancing the positive and improving the negative. Once you see what you have to work with you will realize that you have a lot to offer the world. With that established you need to look in the mirror each day and say "I am good enough, I am smart enough and people like me". When you start believing that, you can stop doing it. Girls aren't "interested" in you because you don't currently believe in yourself. Once you do gain some self-confidence you will be amazed at how suddenly women somehow have noticed you!
Good luck and believe in yourself! I believe in you.
2007-08-23 22:28:55 · answer #2 · answered by Doc Biz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i kinda feel like u
but at times i feel like dying-and dats worse
i got talents too
try showing off some of ur talents
but not to much-waz the worst that could happen
u might get noticed
and thats always good
stay strong yo
2007-08-23 22:33:11 · answer #3 · answered by Reaching Out 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u can exercise..or take some martial arts,it really raises ur self esteem..or u could take so public speaking classes it helps 2
2007-08-23 23:17:05 · answer #4 · answered by Ev_3d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My father would tell you to "Suck it up and tough it out."
I don't know what that means.
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2007-08-23 22:21:43 · answer #5 · answered by Wise@ss 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋