im a good person?

Question

im in univeristy and everyone that i used to know is against me is callin gme a bad person because in highschool i would talk badly about my friends and they found out. and this last year i dumped a boyfriend after a month on campus. now apparantly i am a horrible person and im very depressed because of it...i know i am not a bad person and i do have good intentions i just agree with people i am a very weak person and do look it.. people are saying htat i am a bad person on the inside and just appear to be a good person on the outside so i am a fake. i dont know hwat to do.. how do i get over this. i feel very very depressed because of it

Answer 1

If we were all judged by what we did whilst in high school then I believe that a vast majority of us would be considered "bad people". Through high school, and even college, we are still trying to forge our own identity. We often times say and do things that we may regret in the future. You are only a bad person if you do not recognize and learn from past errors in judgment. Quit worrying about it and chalk this up under the category "LEARNING EXPERIENCE".

PS- My advice? Don't say negative things about people and worry about dating after you finish your education!

Answer 2

i know ur a good person
cuz otherwise u wouldnt bring it up online
and if u used to talk bad about people
maybe u never really talked bad about them u just
agreed to watever ur frends would say about
some1 else-and now u know that even that is bad
and u were part of it ...so now ur feelin guilty about it
-but then again maybe u did talk bad about your frends
back then-and now ur confessing-which means are actually a good person
it might be good to say sorry to ur other frends
and fix a few relationships here and there if possible
if not just get new frends
i'll be ur frend if u want, just remember-iz all gon be ok
sooner or later-hold ur head up-put a smile on
you'll get around it

Answer 3

If you already have a deep awareness that you'd want to be a good person then you are already on the path towards being a good person. Just feel good that you have such a feeling and don't let others confuse you about it. What more can one say about it and I believe you're smart enough to understand better.....

Answer 4

ever hear the saying what goes around comes around, i think all you can do is let it blow over people often get tired of talking about one person all the time, just learn that if you can an will saying something behind their back be able to say it face to face

Answer 5

Just learn from your mistakes. Treat people the way you want to be treated.

it takes years to build character, but one single act can ruin it