and decided to keep the child? any regrets?
2007-08-23 14:22:39 · 11 answers · asked by Danu 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
YES!!! You just described my life!!!! Ok so I had this BF that i was in no way planning on spending my life with, but I got prego and so i was like ok well what do we do. he said abortion i said adoption. I didn't like his idea and he didn't like mine. So I kept the baby he is 7 now and in second grade. I dont' regret it now but i do wish that i could have given him a better life. there is a huge difference between him and my other 2 kids that i had with my husband. They had a mom and dad togeter all the time and were truly wanted and planned for. So on that end i wish I could have adopted him out but not anymore he is my sweet baby and he is a huge helper. So yes there were and are regrets but i wouldn't change my life now for anything.
2007-08-23 14:27:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
Actually I bet about 30% of people have children that way actually. My mom regreted getting pregnant with some guy until she had me and then she didn't feel like it was such a big mistake.
2007-08-23 14:25:38 · answer #2 · answered by !*SoMeOnE_To_CaRe*! 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
readers digest version...i started dating a guy that i didn't like because i was down in the dumps. we started dating in february; he moved in the beginning of march, and i was pregnant by the end of march. 2 weeks before i found out i was pregnant he beat the crap out of me ( i was 20 years old). i found out i was pregnant. he told me to "fall down the stairs and get rid of the problem" and if i didn't want to, he'd help me. the relationship ended...obviously and i now have a beautiful 9 1/2 year old little girl. he has nothing to do with her, nor has he ever. we last spoke when i was 6 months pregnant. i am now happily married to a man who has adopted her and is truly her "dad" and i have a 6 year old son.
2007-08-23 15:00:43 · answer #3 · answered by coachmom 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
hey h long time no hear,yea i do know of 2 women that had a child after a 1 nite stand,and sadly i no quite few that got married and regeted it.one could give advice, but how would that change anything?,as far as the child, i do love them,not only are you a contact ,but i feel we're freinds..PS i don't no who your talkin bout, but i really wish them the best of luck ahead<>IS<>
2007-08-23 15:25:13 · answer #4 · answered by THE"IS" 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No but for a dude that would suck. I think I wouldn't want anything to do with the child if it was a one night stand. Just take care of the baby, but hopefully she wouldn't keep it.
2007-08-23 14:28:07 · answer #5 · answered by MuddButt 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
My lady. That seems so sad that tears can not tell your story as well as your echoing words. I also have not seen my 139 children around the world as I sail forth to another land
2007-08-23 14:41:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
Yes, my husband at the time. If you do not respect the father, it will come thru to your child. Let's face it, he is a part of the child.
2007-08-23 14:27:12 · answer #7 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Children are a blessing... if this is about you once you have the child you'll be glad you did.
2007-08-23 14:26:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
yes got pregnant from a boyfriend loved him but didnt want to disappoint my parents and in the end he turned out to be someone i didnt want to be with, i got an abortion
2007-08-23 14:31:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
i never heard of anyone really regreting their own children no matter what the circumstances.
2007-08-23 14:25:15 · answer #10 · answered by eb 5 · 5⤊ 0⤋