Four years weve have been together it hasent been easy but I have stuck in thier because I had feelings more like love but thru the bumps and bruses I have tried to stick it out buy being respectfull and faithful, even when some one says that they dont want you I still stayed but after buying a ring and asking her to marry me she says yes but dose she really mean it. and things are still the same whats a man to do walk out on his family never me i swore I really wanted this to work but between diferent men and alcholic and a very unstable relationship I guess its enough Ive tried to walk but always end up back here but things arent changeing although she says that whe loves me i dont feel it. how much should I take before I walk its seem to be the hardest decesion of my life this is not my first but i wanted it to be my last. WHAT NEXT
2007-08-23 13:59:47 · 6 answers · asked by CJ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Cutting your ties is hard in the beginning, but it gets easier. Someone that loves you typically will not hurt you, but instead the opposite which is love you. If it starts out bad, usually it will always end up bad. There are many people out in the world that are not damaged or unwilling to see their flaws-if you think it's worth trying then do it, but if you know that it isn't, then leave it. Just because two people have a history, does not insure any future. If you do not feel loved by this indivdual, than chances are that you are right on the head.... Trust your instincts, after all that is why we have them. Good luck and above all stay positive!
2007-08-23 14:11:27 · answer #1 · answered by selysammi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
picture in ur head, the most perfect relationship u could have with her.......do u think it is possible? in order for a great relationship to work, both must want it, both must want the exact same thing, be true to urself, if u think it is possible than put ur effort and also talk with her about putting her part, if not, than although it is painful, do wats best for u leave and establish a new sense of happiness.. good luck, i'll pray for u...Ask God to help u, He has all ur answers..
2007-08-23 14:19:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You say she is an alcoholic? If she has a problem with alcohol, call Alcoholics Anonymous and ask them to direct you to the nearest Ala-non meeting they are free and they have the best help you can get. If it's other men, why would you put up with that?
2007-08-23 19:58:48 · answer #3 · answered by Sweet Suzy 777! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no one has to take that from anyone. you must do whats is in your head not whats in your heart.. sometimes the heart can lead you in a different path then you know you should go.. what i would say is what would you tell your best friend or sister to do.. thats most likely the answer to your questions. good luck
2007-08-23 14:10:55 · answer #4 · answered by Kat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
With no punctuation this is very hard to read.....but it looks like you both need some marriage counseling.
2007-08-23 14:05:17 · answer #5 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've taken enough already, get to stepping.
2007-08-23 14:09:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋