If your husband was on webcam showing his goods to women that lived in your town and they were showing back... would you divorce him?
2007-08-23 13:57:17 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No. I'd rather stay with him and make his life miserable.
Is it on your personal computer? If so, I would tell him that if he can't be trusted on the computer, you will take it outside and run over it with your car. Then tell him that when you find the whore who is disrespecting you by sending pictures of her crotch to your husband, you're going to scratch her eyes out. (don't really do that; just tell him you will so he has to worry about it)
What a jerk he is. I'm trying to be objective but it really pizzzees me off.
On second thought, take the computer and shove it up his ***.
2007-08-23 14:14:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I'm not sure divorce is the answer to this situation. However, I think that limiting his internet time and getting rid of the webcam would be a good start. While the information super highway is a wonderful innovation, it is very dangerous for married persons to engage in the type of behavior that your husband is. It's not uncommon. Unfortunately many men and women find themselves doing and saying things over the computer and on webcams that they would never normally do.
Good Luck to you.
2007-08-23 14:13:49 · answer #2 · answered by Mary J 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Personally, I would be pissed off.....I won't lie. In that situation, I would hope that we would seek counseling because we made a vow to God the day we married. Realistically, I have no idea......cheating is grounds for a divorce in the eyes of the Lord, so if I caught him actually cheating, it would be over. But his webcam and maybe his computer too, would be meeting my hammer for sure!
2007-08-23 14:11:03 · answer #3 · answered by Bindy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, my husband had pictures of his "goods" on his computer that I found. He tried to lie to me and then finally told the truth. Does he know that you know? If so, then I would seriously think about whether I'd stay in a marriage like that. That is supposed to be for YOUR eyes ONLY!!! How would he feel if the tables were turned?
2007-08-23 14:07:03 · answer #4 · answered by Leaving on a jetplane 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You bet I would, that creep!
Not only would I divorce him, I would have to have a chat with a few women in town, and their husbands, if they had one.
2007-08-23 15:46:49 · answer #5 · answered by haleigh's mom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uhh, Yeah!! The real question is why wouldn't you? I'm sorry but the only person that is allowed to see my husbands goods is me, that's why I married him, he's mine and not to be shared with the town. Good Luck :o)
2007-08-23 14:08:20 · answer #6 · answered by ~{Graciela}~ 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You first need to talk to him and set some rules if you want him.
Counseling is need but first you get to take down the web cam
You also need marriage counseling.
You need to find out the real reason for him doing this.
A marriage can be repaired but you both must it.
2007-08-23 14:09:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think that his behavior is a pre-cursor to many of his other behaviors.... All men do not act this way, but I would be very leary of this behavior-that may just be what you know about.
Too many men out there to sell yourself short, besides isn't it better to be single than to be in a destructive relationship?
2007-08-23 14:15:55 · answer #8 · answered by selysammi 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yep... after I busted up his little peep show with a sledgehammer, man that would be theraputic.
2007-08-23 14:11:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i believe in second chances, so no, i wouldn't divorce him right away. i would give him another chance, but anything after that and i would find a great lawyer.
2007-08-23 14:05:06 · answer #10 · answered by redpeach_mi 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋