when skool starts monday i have nobody in my lunch im wit all 10th and 11th graders and im going into 9th...well my twin bro has my lunch and a couple other 9th people but i dont like them. who am i supposed to sit wit now all my bffs have the lunch before me it sux...and they wont let me swicth i tried already. i dont wanna sit alone that would look so dorky and stufff. i kno like alot of people above me in diffrent grades at my skool but why would they wanna hang out wit a little kid like me. wat should i do now...
2007-08-23 13:38:42 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
well cause the grades im sitting wit i cussed out alot of people in those grades and i started rumors about them. so ya thats why i dont wanna be wit them that much.........
2007-08-23 13:45:15 · update #1
i care if i sit alone it looks dorky and people think u have no friends but i do they all just got the good lunch hr and i got the crappy one.
2007-08-23 13:54:51 · update #2
Maybe people would want to hang out with you if you were a more likeable person. Why are you limiting your possible friends? Unless those people you don't like did something truly heinous, why can't you befriend them?
2007-08-23 13:42:23 · answer #1 · answered by not too creative 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry, Em! That must suck! I don't have anyone (so far) to sit with at lunch either on Monday, since I'm starting a new school. Anyway, find an interesting-looking person or interesting-looking people who it looks like you would get along with. Just ask if you can sit there, and sit down if they say yes (if they say no, say OK and walk away and try again with someone else). Try to make sure you're not obvious about the fact that you're in 9th grade, or people will laugh at you.
Hope that helps! Good luck!
2007-08-24 08:09:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Eating lunch alone would suck. I've never tried that, but that would be so boring! Its not even just how people look at you, OMG they're a dork cause they sit alone, and stuff. Its suck cause who are you supposed to talk to. I don't know about you, but even though I'm cool by myself, it just a million times better to have people to interact with and entertain you.
You should have more of an open mind, you don't know they wouldn't want to chill with you during lunch just cause they're upper classmen. I'm a junior now, but I chilled with juniors and seniors when I was fresh. And I didn't know anyone in the entire school cause I had just moved the summer before 9th grade. Just be a cool kid, don't do stupid freshman stuff like OMG WHERES ROOM 45, OMG WHERES ROOM 45!?!!?!
Ask cool people if you can sit by them. If they're cool they won't be assholes and say no, just smile, sit pretty, and start talking..and eating cause it lunch and stuff.
2007-08-23 20:58:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
EmaWeeE,unless you want to spend your lunches alone you will have to take the initiative to make friends.You must try to make friends with the some of the kids in your class.If you can't raise up your courage to ask someone to eat lunch with you you will have to eat alone.I'm certain if you put an effort into it you can make some new friends.It costs nothing to be kind.You would be surprised how many kids are in the same boat,Just start a conversation by saying "Hello". Take care
2007-08-23 21:35:13 · answer #4 · answered by gussie 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
that happened to me last year when i was going into 9th. so i pretty much looked for another girl that was sitting alone and i asked her i could sit with her. she turned out to be a grade above me but she still let me still with her. to today shes one of my best friends and since i was hanging out with her, her other friends hung out with me. it really wasn't that hard. all my friends had the same lunch as me last year but i was in a different cafeteria. so yea i was mad that all my friends got to sit together when i couldn't but it wasn't that bad. i made new friends that i like more then them..i don't have lunch with my friends this year either.
2007-08-23 20:59:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
just try and talk to a few of the older friends and see if they wouldnt mind if you sat near them. Then after you can become more popular and have the older grades like you a bit more than before
2007-08-23 20:43:54 · answer #6 · answered by mrgmboss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
: well maybe youll recognize someone in a class or something && make a new friend . if you already have alot of other friends . im sure it wont be too hard to meet a few more at table =] just be confident in yourself and ...... sit at a table . start something
2007-08-23 20:45:14 · answer #7 · answered by jus_luhv 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just find people who cares if you sit alone? i did untill i found some friends to sit with
2007-08-23 20:49:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go sit with someone you know. They ,may be in a higher grade than you, but I'm sure they will welcome you. You may also find someone eating alone that is in 10th or 11th grade who I'm sure would welcome some company.
2007-08-23 20:45:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well guess what u put ur self in a bad situation and its ur fault! u shouldn't be talking bout people and cussin them out and startin rumors... UR FAULT! u knew u would have to deal with those kids u were talkin bout so... but i really hope it works out for u, really ;)
2007-08-24 23:57:07 · answer #10 · answered by chrisbrownswifey17 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋