who is being the selfish one?
2007-08-23 12:33:32 · 13 answers · asked by Julie B 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i really am tickled by all the answers,....l like every answer so far....thanks....yes, he does work all day...sometimes 10hrs. i am greatful, sometimes tired ...I guess I am a pleaser, but i never was until i met him....cause i love him....and come to think of it....i wouldnt want it any other way...thank you..
2007-08-23 13:24:43 · update #1
Don't think of it as "selfish"; that puts the wrong connotations in place. Most people don't feel at their best every day, so if someone says "no" every now and then that is perfectly normal.
2007-08-23 12:38:28 · answer #1 · answered by Mathsorcerer 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm pretty sure that I'm the horniest guy in the world, with a hot wife who loves to be too tired, have a headache, or whatever else gets her out of the chore. I would have sex everyday if she ever wanted to. I end up jerking it on the 23 days a month she doesn't want to.
But if she ever gets horny again, and on the seventh day in a row said she didn't want to, there is no way in hell I would be mad/disappointed/whatever. The sheer fact that you say you like to please him should be enough. Anything else and he's being an ***.
2007-08-23 14:08:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. When you say no maybe he see rejection. Talk with him a be honest a tell him is you do not feel good to having sex sometime and explain very sweet why. Communication is important tell him in a way that he don't feel rejected and thanks him for work hard for you. You are not a sex machine your a girl. Try to do your best and tell him how much. Try this the next time he came from work run to him and jump over him hug with your legs and arms and tell him that your happy because he is in home. He heart is going to melt.
2007-08-23 14:42:16 · answer #3 · answered by Jack Jack 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who's asking the question. It sounds like he's asking from the way you worded your question. If I'm right and you are a pleas-er and enjoy sex then he is definitely the one who's selfish.
Am I right or am I wrong?
2007-08-23 12:47:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I never have and never will tell my husband flat out no. I just think if you are not up to it tell him you are a" little tired, how about a quickie." That way he still gets what he wants/needs from you and you don't turn him down. My husband would much rather a quickie than none, but then it usually out to be more than a quickie, just because....
A woman should never say no to her husband, providing its not forced on her.
2007-08-23 12:47:07 · answer #5 · answered by hope I can help 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
no1s being selfish
ur guy really likes sex thts all!! XD
maybe hes the naughty/h-o-r-n-y kind
it sounds silly tho its true lmao
btw i spelled out tht word cause if i write the whole word it comes out like this:***** ok?
2007-08-23 12:40:21 · answer #6 · answered by PinkIdiotGirl 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If I could I'd do it every day and twice on Sunday.
2007-08-23 15:07:48 · answer #7 · answered by Yak Rider 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyday, wow doesn't he come tired from work?
2007-08-23 12:55:59 · answer #8 · answered by ME 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
different people have different sexual appetite. him getting mad is not cool. you might want to change "man", or go to couples counselling...he might want to attend an anger managment class.
2007-08-23 12:43:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should not have to ask to begin with. It is suppose to be special and not some act to make your man feel good about himself.
2007-08-23 12:38:01 · answer #10 · answered by Simply Lovely 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋