I am going to buy a viberator and I was going to put on a show for my husband for his birthday and have him watch me. I was going to include using it on him in ways as well. Also was going to be dressed up etc... for mood. I don't know if this is a stupid idea I am so scared he'll think I am dumb or something, lol.
Anywho,
I dont know what kind of lubes to buy. I was wanting to buy the kind that gets warm but can that be used as an internal lube I wouldnt want it to burn or get too hot in my whoo-whoo if ya know what i mean. I am also very allergic to a lot of things so I'd need something sensitive.
I am very shy and I've never done this before or even used something like this before. So I am needing serious answers on what lubes etc... Would be best.
http://www.vibrator.com/sex-toys/light-up-massager.html
(one i was looking to get or something similar)
http://www.vibrator.com/sex-toys/forplay-sens-succ-55oz.html
(lubes i was looking at)
If there's better sites let me know too.
2007-08-23 12:24:09 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Sorry for asking this on here. When I look things up I get smut sites. I have no one to ask. I have 0 girlfriends. My mom, MIL, and SIL are out of the question.
2007-08-23 12:26:01 · update #1
Didn't want to offend anyone by using the word "vagina" didn't know I could use that language on here. Sorry.
2007-08-23 12:29:07 · update #2
Can you buy KY online? I am too afraid to go into the stores to do this. I am very shy and timid.
2007-08-23 12:29:50 · update #3
Is there a Spencer's near you? They have all different kinds of lubes and stuff.
I like "Wet". I also like to buy the little sample packs of different flavors.
http://www.adameve.com/sex-lubricants/Erotic-Massage-Oils-sex-lubricants/sp-midnite-fire-massage-lotion-sex-lubricants-3255.aspx
http://www.adameve.com/sex-lubricants/Flavored-Sex-Lubes-sex-lubricants/sp-tasty-lovin-sampler-kit-sex-lubricants-1973.aspx
If you really want to have a good time, try this, you will LOVE it!!!
http://www.adameve.com/Adult-Sex-Toys/Cock-Rings-Adult-Sex-Toys/sp-clit-buddy-rocky-rabbit-vibrating-cock-ring-Adult-Sex-Toys-9135.aspx?f=1&itemtype=30
Where do you live? I'll take you to get stuff. I'm not embarrased in the least!!!
2007-08-23 13:40:56 · answer #1 · answered by haleigh's mom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off I have to ask. Can I be there to drink the champagne when it comes back out? They make little bottles of champagne. Like 7 oz. sizes Maybe try that first. Not as much pressure as what a big bottle might have. Otherwise you might consider asking an emergency room doctor. Or your OBGYN. You might even try putting a condom over the top of the bottle and shake it up. Then you could see and feel how much pressure comes out. Maybe try the spay nozzle from your kitchen sink to see if that would hurt at all. You can regulate the water pressure from low to high. Basically you need to try different things first and work your way up to the more extreme. Also if your hubby gets to try this on you. Does this mean you get to put a vibrator in his rectum? You know the male G spot is in the rectum right? If he hasn't explored this yet. He will really love having you screw him. Enjoy yourself hon. Just take precautions when trying new things. Be preparred for the worst if something goes wrong.
2016-05-21 02:35:56 · answer #2 · answered by mirian 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before you do your special "show" it might be a good idea to try to find out if your husband would really apreciate it. Has he ever mentioned using toys or "spicing up" your evening fun? Guys are so different what one guy loves, another guy might think is rediculous, or even deviant/wierd. Initailly, you might just mention some thing like "have you ever thought about using "toys" in bed? (You could claim a friend of yours reccomended it or some lame excuse like that, that way if he thinks its really dirty, it doesn't sound like it was your idea!).
If he is obviously grossed out by the idea, it's a clearly a "show-stopper", and you've saved making a fool of yourself!.
If he seems receptive, try to gather "intelligence" about what he would find pleasurable. let me warn you, if your kind of shy and inexperienced, the male mind can be a pretty bizzare place; you might hear some rather shocking stuff! Let's hope you don't open pandora's box!
Once you have a rough idea what he might like, procure the necessary paraphenilia as discreetly as possible. Since you have never done this before, you might try renting some of the softer porn movies to get some ideas about what to do. Maybe right in the middle of your show turn off the "unit" and say "Dang it, the batterys are dead; quick, I need some kind of phallic-shaped object; this is an emergency!" I'm certian you husband will be able to provide one!
Good luck for you show; I hope it gets good reviews!
2007-08-23 13:00:03 · answer #3 · answered by Flying Dragon 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The KY warming gel in the tube does not get hot enough to hurt you, it is only slightly warm at first for added sensation. The site you have link to seems to have decent prices. Spend a few bucks extra & get a jackrabbit, you will thank yourself later. If you got a few more bucks, get a water proof jack rabbit. I like this place.. http://www.theadulttoyshoppe.com/
Also looks like the waterproof jack rabbit is this months favorite ROFL. You never know when a long hot bath sounds just right for yourself or both of you if your tub is big enough or hot tub usage. Also you can search "sex+toys" & you won't get a lot of smut sites, you get legit toy sites mostly.
Also your husband won't think your silly, he will love it as it sounds like you want to do it in a classy way. Don't be embarrassed, the adult toy business is one of the biggest types of businesses. I don't care who it is, your friend, mother, or the most modest women you know, they got toys trust me, they are just descreet about it. These things are natural for us all.
2007-08-23 12:36:10 · answer #4 · answered by simplysweetnsexi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well we don't know your husband but I can tell you most men would love this. There is nothing we love more than to have the one we love not only interested in sex but willing to put on a show. You will do fine I am sure.
Not sure if you can get the lube on line but I would think so.
Go get him girl.
2007-08-23 12:38:27 · answer #5 · answered by John B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No,it is not a stupid idea.I wish I had a woman who would do something like this.It would be such a turn on.As far as the vibrator and lube to use.Check out AdamandEve.com for both items.They sell a wide variety of lubes and vibrators well.They have many lubes for sensitive skin.They are also in a variety of prices.
2007-08-23 12:34:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You might want to include a camcorder in your birthday surprise . Lye naked on your bed and shove a pillow under your *** .Have your husband at the foot of the bed camera in hand videoing . Start playing with you pussy , needing and stretching your pussy lips . Then pulling you lips back and up , Thus making your clit stand up tall and proud . Tell your that you need your pussy kissed , But just one kiss . Then slowly very slowly masturbate for him , Picking up speed as you are getting closer to orgasm . All the time moaning .Louder as you get closer to your orgasm . Then scream out !!!!!!! I Am cuming !!!!! I am cumming !!!!!!!!!!!!! . You won't need any lube . Jonnboy62000@yahoo.com
2014-09-12 09:42:25 · answer #7 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My advise would have to be as follows.
You know your man, and should you feel you do not know him well enough to know the outcome of such an act. Then there is one good way to get to know. Courage, and faith in your mate is the bond between the two of you in your healthy relations.
What lies locked away in those darker regions of desire, ultimately crave acceptance by another to share the indulgence in. To deny yourself, or him of those hidden areas is to never know what connections can be made. Open doors and allow the quest of experiences begin with your new adventures. Explore together a world of endless possibilities, and grow stronger together.
The risk should be worth it. As should your partner not be open to the adventure than that path ends. At least for your partner. Grant them the ability to judge the extremes of such desires.
Though remember, what you open, might cost you greatly. As your partner is next in line to unveil what lies behind their dark desires. Be open to that same respect when its their turn. ;)
-I am sure he would enjoy what you have to offer, as he did marry you, and would likely travel the world for you. So give it a shot, thats what discovery is all about. New doors become available as you walk on thru the locked ones.
2007-08-24 08:53:16 · answer #8 · answered by Wolf1134 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about offending anyone. People are WAY too touchy around here...
I would reccomend KY warming "lotion". It's sold at pretty much ALL drug stores and Wal-Mart, and it's fairly cheap. If you have any questions, you can go to adameve.com - they have a HUGE selection of vibes and lubes.
Good Luck ;)
2007-08-23 12:35:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Do not think you are silly or stupid. You doing that because you love your husband and you want to have a happy husband. Maybe he wants some of that and he don't ask because he do not want to hurt you. Love your husband cultivate your marriage, be happy and enjoy your intimacy with much love. Go to Amazon.com and ask what you want the site is very secure.
2007-08-23 12:35:07 · answer #10 · answered by Jack Jack 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
There is a product that is sold at PureRomance.com, or at a pure romance party. It is called Just like me. It is water based and harmless. They have great toys too. Shipping is fast and cheap. I think your man will love this idea and you have no reason to feel embarrassed at all. You do all the foreplay work and he gets all the benefit.Have fun! He will. Just being you and what is important.
2007-08-23 12:35:21 · answer #11 · answered by LuvinLos 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋