My ex & i split our 3yr relationship a couple months ago. we just started talking again a month ago n have gotten pretty close again. This past weekend he attended my bfs wedding w/me where i was the Maid-of-honor and our little girl was the flower girl. He had told me on friday that he had started seeing a girl at work---we both work at the same place. he has dated a couple girls since we split up. I told him sat that i was sad & i missed him. we still had a great weekend & ended up sleeping together. the next day he tells me hes worried about her seein the hickies on my neck bc if she does then "they wont be friends anymore" well this girl is 18 and stupid bc she doesnt put 2&2 together-she knows he spent the weekend with me n then i show up on mon with hickies? well i told him that he needs to tell her n he said why hurt her, that itd be easier to break up with her.now she flaunts the fact that they are together in front of me & it breaks my heart.what do i do. i want my family back
2007-08-23 12:23:02 · 3 answers · asked by kellie_new_mom25 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
she shas seen them but is either too scared to ask him about them or has asked n he lied about it. i aske him n he said she hasnt said anything abou it, and he doesnt want me to say anything to her. PLease help me i want my man back and want my family back together. i could take it if it was just a fling, bc i want hi to get this out of his system and then hopefully work things out in a yr or so,but if he starts having feelings for her then that means we arent going to ever get back together. and he obviously has bc hed rather hurt me than her.
2007-08-23 12:40:36 · update #1
Let her see the hickies and then you wont have to say anything she will figure it out for herself . good luck .well then if you know that he would rather hurt you than her why the hell do you want him back ? he is not worth having dear . move on .
2007-08-23 12:32:54 · answer #1 · answered by Kate T. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait, if hes worried about what shes going to think...
Then get it thru your head, he wants to mess with her and you...If you don't think thats true then MAKE HIM SUFFER, make him want you...Sounds pretty crazy..But show him that you won't be played with.........
2007-08-23 19:38:15 · answer #2 · answered by Little big brains 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You already know what I think cutie. You are better than that.
2007-08-23 20:34:43 · answer #3 · answered by jeffreyrocks2000 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋