3 months ago a family friend came over to my house with thier son my age. me and the boy ill call J.J started dating for a bit. 2 months ago he tol me he wanted me to come to his house cuz he wanted to talk to me... when i got there he wanted to have sex with me and i said no repeatedly. he forced my on the floor took off all my clothes and raped me. i'm now 2 months pregnant and the only person i told was my aunt who i made swore to secretcy. J.J still comes to my house and sexually harrases me.. and i dont noe what to do.
2007-08-23 11:00:42 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
im 16 years old
2007-08-23 11:33:30 · update #1
tell your parents exactly what you told us and call the police.
your aunt needs to be slaped for not telling she should know that this is not right and is illegal.
tell your parents now
2007-08-23 14:07:17 · answer #1 · answered by mary m 3 · 6⤊ 0⤋
call the police. Call them now. Let them tell your parents as they take JJ to jail. If you don't do something then there will be a lot of other girls in the same position you are. Stand up and turn him in. I'm sorry that this happened, and I am not sure of your age, but I am guessing pretty young. You need to do something now, having a baby at a young age is not the way to go about it. It wasn't your fault and you need to let them know so they can help you. You have some tough decissions ahead and the sooner you make them the better.
2007-08-23 11:21:15 · answer #2 · answered by Timovgod 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You just have to tell your parents. Also, tell your parents that your aunt swore you to secrecy. What happened to you is just flat out WRONG and CRIMINAL!!!!!! I know it may seem daunting to tell your parents but you need too. I really think you should go to the police. This has to stop. You deserve to live in a home without someone coming over and raping and sexually harassing you. You deserve to feel safe. Please tell your parents. If you are too scared to do that, do you have a school nurse or teacher you trust that could help you. That J.J needs to face the consequences for hurting you. He can't get away with this!!! Take care mate ;)
2007-08-23 11:15:22 · answer #3 · answered by sydney77 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I never really spilled the details of my short assualt, which thankfully was not rape, but it did affect me so bad and still does. I feel for you and it will get bad emotionally but remember: The baby did not ask to be born and should not be punished for it's father's crime. You must tell someone and still go to the hospital. Try an dwrite down your feelings in a journal about wanting to tell and who to tell nd who would support you.
Secrets this painful are hard to keep and should not be kept
2007-08-23 11:28:58 · answer #4 · answered by Hiro a Hero? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell your parents and then call the cops. They can put a report against him and make sure he doesn't do this to any other girl! You also need to go to the doctor and make sure no damage was done.
I'm so sorry this happened to you sweetie! No girl should ever have to go through this!
2007-08-23 11:09:42 · answer #5 · answered by Brooke 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie- I am so sorry this happened to you. It is not your fault. You did nothing wrong. You should tell them just like you told us. If you are scared you can even read your question out loud to them. They love you and the are going to help you. Take Care
Something like this happen to me. You are not alone. You are a brave person and eventually things will get better. I know that it will.
2007-08-23 11:09:07 · answer #6 · answered by Starsfan14 7 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Show this question to your mom and say it's from you. If this is true and you're not just trying to get "J.J." in trouble or just spinning tales out of boredom.
2007-08-23 12:30:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well you gotta have birth some time to the baby so yiu should tell them pretty soon. just sit your parents down and tell them the WHOLE story. they WONT be mad at you. if they r mad at all if will be at the azz hol J.J. (personally i would tell my mom first and let her tell my dad. but thats just me)
2007-08-23 12:31:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you see him lock the doors, windows EVERYTHING!
DONT TALK TO JJ AGAIN!
If you see him lock everything and hide in a room with no windows.
And its a good idea that you told your aunt. Hopefully she will be able to help you through pregnancy and help you tel your mom and dad.
2007-08-23 11:07:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
The best thing to do is to talk to your parents right away.
2007-08-23 12:15:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋