hey will u help me??????????????

Question

hey frens somethin strange haappened with me !!!!
My class partner ( hes a boy)was tryin to pull out threads from my skirt (and i dont know if he was tryin to tuch me ). at frst i didnt notice it wen i realised it i scolded him in quite casual way an i took it lightly.
When i told it to a friend whose quite elder to me he told me that actually it was a sort of sexual misbehaviour (hope u understood) and then he told me that i am too kiddish and immature.ppl of my age(15 yrs) are quite mature to realise this which probably i couldnt realise.he asked me to bcome mature .I thought alot about it but couldnt find an answer but ya in some corner of my heart i was feelin that im at a gr8 loss due to my ignorant behabviour .
tell me was my frend correect and do tell me what to do wid my class partner ?id like to tell that he tries to talk about sex linked topics to me which i ignore.
plzzzz
i need help !!!!
Otherwise these conflicts going on in my mind would killllllll me!!!!!!!

id want to add that it was quite intentional
(I mean what he was tryin to do)
cos as i said he keeps talkin to me abt sex linked topics .

and ya forgot to tell u that im very kiddish carefreeeeee sort of girls

and its a humble request dear frens ignore my wrong english i wrote it coz i was in a hurry!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 1

let me tell you this i don't think you are wrong here. i was near you age wasn't really paying much attention to guys and come to found out i had an art partner who was 17 and i was 15. at first he started saying i was pretty then slowly touch my leg which i didn't notice until he went to the thigh i was like what are you doing he is like oh showing that i like you want to have lunch together. i was like sure he ended up coming out of his class and tell the teacher he left his book then hes like i want to show you something i was like okay thinking nothing was happening next thing i know i was pinned against the stairway wall being touched in places i didn't like i told him to stop and he wouldn't. i will tell you right now tell the teacher or counselor for a transfer of classes and tell them why get aways from this guy as fast as you can. i believe you old enough to know what is right and wrong? i was just lucky enough it was in school and the bell ring our it would of be a lot worse. this guy sounds like a lot like they guy that hurt me sweety just becareful

Answer 2

No one has a right to touch you or your clothing. If this was in school, you must tell the teacher to tell this boy to keep his hands to himself. It makes no difference whether you're mature or kiddish, as you say. This boy is trying to take advantage of you, whether it is a sexual overture or not. I'm not sure about that, but he has no right to touch any part of your clothes or your body.

Answer 3

Hiya!
Honey first of all breathe.
It doesn't sound like anything you need to feel upset or worried about. He may have a little crush on you and in general boys tend to not touch girl's skirts but it sounds more playful than dangerous, like his only way of being close to you.
Having said that, next time just smile and tell him not to touch your skirt cos you're a good girl, kind of like you're joking but he will know you're bing serious too.
Don't worry okay xx

Answer 4

It could be a big missunderstanding..but it might not be sence he trys to talk about it all the time (sex) Tell him you dont feel comfortible when he talkes like that..If he dont stop tell a adult....that you trust like your mom or dad..Even your best friends mom if you don't want to tell you parents

Answer 5

unless his touching behavior is out of line, then nothing is wrong.
if you do not want to be touched, tell him. if you do not want to
talk to him or if the subject of his conversations bother you, tell him this as well.
should he fail to respect you in any way, report it to a teacher or school councilor.

Answer 6

He was trying to talk about sex, don't encorage him, look at your studies it was just an attraction oftaral you are only 15yrs, don't try new thoughts.

Answer 7

If it didn't bother you, you don't need to make a big deal out of it. (I'm 50, so one adult opinion doesn't mean that's what you have to do.)

Answer 8

who knows what someone else is thinking when they do what they're doing.

just decide what is okay or not okay with you. that's the important part.