i'm in this relationship with girl....but just found that i'm interested in her ex lover.She is so sweet....and it would be realy nice to have her between my sheets!!!!But don't want to loose my current girl
2007-08-23 09:58:38 · 24 answers · asked by Nella 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
yes it is possible to be in love with two girls at one time. But ask yourself which one makes you happier. I tell my freinds that either way ur gonna get hurt or ur gonna hurt somebody.So Maybe if you tell ur girlfriend(current)that ur having feelings for her ex then maybe she wont get that upset. Who knows you might get lucky and she'll ask you for a threesome! But if she dumps you then look on the brightside you'll have a back up girlfriend!LOL. Yes I know my advice suck but just try it!
2007-08-23 10:27:17 · answer #1 · answered by Miss klumzie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stay true to your heart. If you want a life with your current girlfriend than forget about her ex. If you want out of the relationship and want to try something with the ex, tell the girlfriend and get out of the relationship first. Or for the truly ambitious, talk with the ladies and see if they would be interested in a 3-way.
2007-08-23 17:04:33 · answer #2 · answered by Kristy C 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is possible to love more than one person. Its called polyamoury. Lots of good info all over the net about it.
Be open, communicate well, be honest and work to improve the relationships. Are you friends? Might want to further that side of things a lot.
Your 'talk' about getting between your sheets is a little immature though. Love is based upon more adult thoughts and emotions.
2007-08-23 17:03:03 · answer #3 · answered by megettingbetter 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It is possible, though many people will shun you for it. Each love is different, but just as strong. I've loved two people at once, and I was lucky enough that all three of us loved each other. It was beautiful, caring, and supportive. Talk to your current girlfriend about it, find out her views on open relationships.
2007-08-23 19:28:32 · answer #4 · answered by Ayana 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's possible to love 2 girls at once, but I will tell you, it's very difficult....you need to make a choice...if you don't want to lose and hurt your current girlfriend, then you better stay away from the other.
2007-08-23 17:03:58 · answer #5 · answered by missy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if u just want the other girl "between the sheets" try and get over your infatuation..it's nothing more than s/t different than what u have..so maybe u should try s/t diff in your r/s, b/c if you're even thinking a/b cheating then there is s/t wrong in the r/s you are in now..so go do s/t diff w/ your girl "between the sheets" and forget a/b her ex!
2007-08-23 17:03:14 · answer #6 · answered by VWBeetleBear 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
More than possible, even common at times. But unless all three agree to some like aspiration of conjoined mutual effort, such endure foremost impractical.
2007-08-23 17:10:35 · answer #7 · answered by Astute Spy 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would end the first relationship first if you want to go that route. It's cheating otherwise and will hurt your gf. I would keep your current gf and ignore the ex lover, or end the relationship.
P.S. HomeDogg, and just WHAT is wrong if she is a girl? We're in 2007, honey, not the 1900s!
2007-08-23 17:02:28 · answer #8 · answered by Annie 3 · 4⤊ 2⤋
You sound just like a man. Be happy with who you are with. Yes it is cheating, and very disrespective of your current lady,
At this time in your life you have to ask yourself do you want the love, respect and caring that you now have OR do you judt want to be a horn dawg. Please grow up. by cheating you are loosing your own dignity as well as hurting others very deeply. It is cheaper and less emotionaly painfull to just pleasure yourself and not hurt the one you are with now.
2007-08-23 17:10:01 · answer #9 · answered by talbot983 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Yes, contrary what our culture has ingrained in it, you can love mutiple people romantically at the same time. Examples of this is seen in multiple cultures across the world.
2007-08-23 17:07:54 · answer #10 · answered by Pirate AM™ 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋