Why am I no good at this life?I made a fool of myself and my life has gotten harder ever since, what do I do?

Answer 1

Forget about it and move on. Life is hard but dwelling on mistakes doesn't help. Learn and move on.

Answer 2

The short answer is that you are committing the eighth deadly "sin", that is, feeling sorry for yourself. Nothing defines an over-inflated ego so precisely as its collapse into self-pity when the illusion of perfection is punctured.

What to do? First stop feeling sorry for yourself. Second, recognize that human beings make mistakes and you're a human being. The world is a complex place and it requires complex decisions from us. Some are hits, some are misses. Third, recognize that any contribution is better than no contribution. If you are having trouble being the hero, maybe you could be better at some supporting role.

This is the only life you've got. Make the best of it - even if its merely down at the car-wash, without a trophy wife, sports car or an adoring public. Come down here and live with us mortals. It ain't that bad!

Answer 3

Did anyone ever promise you that life would be easy?? But those hard spots will make you a better person. Just take one day at a time and eventually you will come through to the other side. You will then look back and be amazed at what you did. I am thinking you do not have many options--except going forward. Right? You are not a quitter. Good luck and best wishes.

Answer 4

You have whats left of your life to forget about it, I embarrass myself all the time in front of family, Friends and complete strangers, I feel like I fail at everything, if its getting a better body, school, to loosing a race/game on the xbox. Life actually hasn't got harder, just the challenges have. If stuff is really bothering you, see what the cause is....and chuck it away, (not including family - never give up on them) You have to realise that your number one in your life....I think from tomorrow or whenever you get this message - think of it as a new book. and your starting again.

Answer 5

You seen to have low self-esteme of your self my friend. Everyone of us on this earth have made a fool of themselves one way or the other and that includes me. But do you continue to keep your face in the drit. No, get up and try again. The problem could be that you are trying too hard to succed. When we walk we walk it is one step at a time. Two feet cannot walk at the same time. So try to do only one thing at a time and you will find that did more than you realized.

Answer 6

It isn't that you are not good at this life, your just still learning in it. we all make mistakes and if we learn from then ..its a good thing.. I bet you wont make a fool of your self in the same situation again will you? so you have learn ed from it.. just asking the simple question shows you knew you were making a fool and you have regretted it ever since..

Answer 7

we all make mistakes, the key is to learn from them and move on. You may feel humiliated now and for some time to come but eventually that will fade and you will hopefully never repeat whatever it was you did that made you feel foolish.
Life is one big learning pattern, and chances are you are just paranoid. You must have seen other folk making fools of themselves many times, and no one dwells on it. Other folk who witnessed your idiocy have probably forgotten it. Or they remember it and love you for it.

Answer 8

Just try to make the best of things, that's all any of us can do.

I've made many mistakes that have cost me dear in my 46 years on this Earth, if I sit and think for too long they come back to haunt me, so it's best to try to keep yourself active and your mind occupied and not dwell on the past, just recall happy times and that should help lift your spirits, and look forward to some new experiences in the future.....

Answer 9

Pick yourself up, dust yourself down and start all over again. The man who never made a mistake never made anything. I't's not the mistakes you make it's how you turn them into a learning process etc. All sounds corny when my Mum told me but 30 years on it's true and it works. Believe in yourself it gets easier as you get older.

Answer 10

Try to be more confident and find YOU ARE HOW YOU FEEL ABOUT YOURSELF! Loving and accepting ourselves is THE MOST CRITICAL FACTOR in experiencing joy,happiness, and success in life. When you really love yourself and you really love other people, you find that life is really an incredible journey where things flow, and no matter what happens you always find a way to enjoy yourself and you feel fulfilled. You MUST love yourself completely.
This determines your STANDARDS for what you are willing to accept or settle for. It determines how well you treat your body and your health, how much money you feel you deserve to earn or feel you can make, your belief in whether you can achieve your goals, how much others RESPECT you and how they treat you, and even whether people like you and want to be around you. People love being around confident people. You see, confident people do not feel the need to judge you or tear you down in order to elevate their own self-worth. They radiate a positive energy. You feel safe around them. You need to consistently and confidently take action to move towards your goals, and towards your ultimate destiny. People who lack in confidence often get ‘stuck’. So you see, your entire DESTINY is shaped by your degree of confidence. True self-confidence comes from an absolute sense of certainty deep within, that you are able to handle anything life throws your way. Truly confident people exude calm, control, power, certainty. They care about people, and they make people feel good when they are around them.They never brag – after all, actions speak louder than words. People who brag are just masking their insecurities. People have varying degrees of confidence depending on what activity they are performing. For example, someone might be totally confident in performing a piano concert, or driving a car, but feel totally inadequate at a new job they’ve started, or at flirting with members of the opposite sex. People with Total Self-Confidence, though, have complete belief in themselves. They never ask themselves “Can I really do this? What if this doesn’t work out? Am I good enough to pull it off?” They know that if they really want something, and they are committed to getting it, it will happen. They know that it’s just a question of time until they’ve mastered the skills and knowledge to make whatever they want a reality

Answer 11

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