I dont get turned on easily. Even if my bf is kissing me or touching me places, i dont seem to get turned on. I just do ot coz he likes it. It seems he gets turned on very easily while i dont even have any sensation. What is wrong with me? I would like to enjoy the feeling but i am not able to. I cant even tell this to my bf, coz he may feel bad.
2007-08-23 08:43:06 · 6 answers · asked by Hummingbird 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
is it true that all women have hard time getting turned on while men are turned on ina afew seconds?
2007-08-23 08:52:22 · update #1
Try to relax more, think about the way it feels when he touches u ... try to avoid doing it too often, do it less n u will feel it more !
Tell him u would like him to try new things, like kissing u in different places he normally does, explain to him that it takes a really long time for u to be turned on .. he needs to know ! :)
Hope i helped!
2007-08-23 08:50:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You answered your own question. You don't get turned on easily. There may be mental, emotional or physical reasons , so you should probably see a doctor. Or it could be that you are not attracted to your boyfriend, or you're just not interested in having sex. Lots of reasons and most can be corrected. See a doctor.
2007-08-23 15:52:09 · answer #2 · answered by gldjns 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nothing is wrong with you maybe you just have a low sexual drive or your bf is doing something wrong, here what if this continues let your bf know because in the end you will be unsatisfied and unhappy so tell him. Good Luck!!!
2007-08-23 15:49:27 · answer #3 · answered by darkangelbird 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your boyfriend has raging hormones. Is he pushing you too far, too fast???
If you don't have the homones needed for your sexual developement yet, that's okay--it means you are not ready.
Your boyfriend is.
You have to tell him how you feel--say, "I am not ready for sex yet". If that is all he wants, he will go away. If all he wants is you, then he will have to wait.
Good luck and may God bless you.
2007-08-23 15:56:08 · answer #4 · answered by kathleen m 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to figure out what turns you on and tell your boyfriend.
I had to tell my husband what I liked as he was trying things he did with his previous girlfriend. Worked for her...not me!!
2007-08-23 16:11:21 · answer #5 · answered by swimbike21 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ugh it sucks i know i do the same thing...Its like nothing works im gonna wait on asnweres!
2007-08-23 15:50:48 · answer #6 · answered by Mom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋