One day I went for my regular massage but my massage therapist was on vacation so I choose a male massuer instead. This is my first time being massage by a male. I got aroused when he massage my inner thighs and breast.
Uncontrollable I begin holding his bottom and eventually I made him make love to me. In no time I frequently went to meet him and each visit we made love.
The problem is that I am a 28 year old recently married woman and I know what I did was wrong but I really can't resist the happy moments with him. On the other hand I don't want to leave my husband because I love him too. My husband is also a great lover in bed. Can someone tell me what should i do?
2007-08-23 08:40:18 · 18 answers · asked by glorious 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
The word whore comes to mind.
2007-08-23 08:47:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 0⤋
How about suggesting that you and your mate attend massage therapist training together and reward one another with the benefits of that training and maybe enter into some fantasy or role play using what you learn. The benefits are great, the medicinal effects will be benefitial, and you could make an appointment for him to come to your work or you to his for massage therapy during lunch break or whatever. Explore the excitement with your husband don't exclude him from it. If your going to cheat on him do him a favor and give his life to him to lead as I am sure he would not approve. If you are not going to fix it, then get out or be honest.
2007-08-23 08:57:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell your husband that you cheated on him. Then if you really believe that you love your husband (it can't possibly be true) then you should save him from the sick world that you're giving him and tell him to file for divorce!
Your statement "my husband is also a great lover in bed" speaks for itself. You are so stupid and so immature. Another low-life woman that doesn't even know what love, marriage and family is. You have no clue how to do it, unless you're having sex. Well, you missed the boat idiot. Payback is gonna be a b i t c h!
I hope there are no children involved.
2007-08-23 09:20:09 · answer #3 · answered by Very Honest 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
HOw about, Quit going to the male massuer??
And you are going to have to tell you husband. I doubt it's going to be very pretty.
WOW! You should NEVER have gotten married.
2007-08-23 09:02:42 · answer #4 · answered by Lindsay G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you really should stop seeing this massage guy....my parents are getting divorced from a problem similar to yours....and its hell. complete, and utter hell...and until you start the process, you won't understand. your husband will be hurt, you wont be able to see your lover, and you'll end up alone....if you want to do the right thing, resist the temtation and stay with your husband!
2007-08-23 08:50:21 · answer #5 · answered by advice?yeah 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if this is true, then im sorry...im not going to call you a whore or anything like that....things happen. i have never actually had sex with another man, but i have talked to him online...and liked him. mabe there is something missing with you and your husband. i know that is my case here. the best bet if you dont want to leave your husband or for him to find out is end it. that is what is best and has to be done.
2007-08-23 09:00:17 · answer #6 · answered by im done 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop cheating on your husband NOW! Let your husband give you massages from now on. You could end up losing him if you don't stop.
2007-08-23 08:58:00 · answer #7 · answered by moonchild 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way this is for real.
A professional masseuse is not going to put his job and career at risk like this.
Stop posting your infantile fantasies here. This isn't the place.
2007-08-23 08:50:13 · answer #8 · answered by AngiesHusband 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Keep your legs closed befoe you catch something. What is wrong with you? You've got a husband & your going to break his heart, for what? take your vows seriously.
2007-08-23 08:57:45 · answer #9 · answered by shellysd 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are old enough, get a job writing for Harlequin Romances. You have one hell of an imagination!!!
2007-08-23 09:03:33 · answer #10 · answered by Needtoknow 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
without passing judgement, i can tell you that you need to follow your heart. where does your search for true love lead you. be true to yourself first, then choose the path you're need to take
2007-08-23 09:47:46 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋