2007-08-23 07:42:44 · 40 answers · asked by Pumpkin 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It was when he gave me his heart and soul and I gave him mine:) I knew when we were talking about just everyday things and never had a dull moment, not even for a few minutes! We share everything together. He has been with me through the roughest of times in my life, and always stood with me not behind me or in front of me just side by side holding my hand and helping me and the kids find out what and how love really works without fighting, or disagreeing! He has shown us how to live life to the fullest and no challenge is to big for us to deal with:) Love is the one thing in everyone’s life they hope to find:) Some never have the luck to find real love. Others find it and abuse it and there family, and toss it out like a dirty rag. When someone loves you they will go to the end of earth for you and give there life for yours. When you find this one person that makes you feel so complete in everything you do and you can not stand to be apart for long, and when you are apart you have no smile, or when you do smile it is because your thinking about something you did together or maybe just a memory that brings that smile to your face:) That is love:)
When you have found this one true love of your life do not use it or abuse it. It is the one true love of your life. When you kiss this person you find so much passion with compassion, and intimacy with many different ways to share your feelings! You will know in your heart and soul, others will see the light and joy in your eyes and on your face, it is one you can not hide:):)
Best of luck to you:):)
Rags37:):)
2007-08-23 08:21:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You've already got some neat answers, so I'm just going to share.
I'm a big believer in marriage. (I married the same woman twice)! I have never seen happier , more deeply satisfied people than men and women who have made their marriages work But neither have I met many people in highly successful marriages who got there without an enormous expenditure of energy and determination. There were times when they simply had to be "willful." Sometimes issues arise and the partner's don't have the necessary skills to manage them. They essentially have two choices: give up and run away, or get about the task of developing the required skills. Partners with willpower always adopt the second alternative. They wouldn't think of giving up. They are ready to go to work on the problem, ready to do whatever they must to keep their marriage healthy for a life time! Remember: The wedding last only for a moment. The marriage starts after the honeymoon!
And lastly: It's not so much finding the right one....It's being the right one! Good luck!
2007-08-23 08:07:08 · answer #2 · answered by Committed Ministries 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Actually, I knew as soon as I met my wife. It really was love at first sight, and now we've been married 28 years so I guess I was right! I don't put alot of weight in astrology...but, find out if your signs are compatible. Don't find out from some dime store paper. Go to a REAL book store. They have astrology encyclopedias. Get the real scoop. If your signs clash, you may want to think twice. Write down everything you would love to have in a mate...everything! Then figure out how many items pass the test. Some good ones are, Trustworthy, brave, clean, reverent, thoughtfull, honest, sexy....you know, stuff like that. Good Luck!
2007-08-23 07:57:02 · answer #3 · answered by BIG BEN 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I knew he was the one after the first kiss. We moved in together a month later, married 6 months later and have been married 10 years next May- He is wonderful!!!
2007-08-23 09:36:21 · answer #4 · answered by Sunshine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I knew she was the one because we could always count on each other. We respected each other and our thoughts and beliefs. When I saw her I knew she was the one because she had the personality and the looks. I was very comfortable around her and when I was with her. I could ask her advice for my trouble and she would help me come over obstacles. And most importantly when she told me those three words "I love you." Really from that moment on I knew she was the one I wanted to spend the rest of my life with. Now when I look back I think it is worth it being with her for the rest of my life. We have now been married for 14 years and we have six boys.
2007-08-23 08:21:35 · answer #5 · answered by Proud Pa of 6 Boys 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok...this is a weird one,but I didnt think my husband was "the one" right away. I had been through a horrible break-up with another guy two months before getting married (THANK GOD...RIGHT?) and would simply not allow myself to believe it or let myself accept it.I guess I was jaded. He just kept coming around,and coming around,patiently, and taking it slowly, until finally one day,he kissed me. I swear to God, it was the strangest thing..... I never felt ANYTHING like it before...and I wasnt even expecting it. His kiss simply made every other kiss I'd ever had seem like I had been kissing the back of my hand. It TASTED sweet...is all I can say. It sounds really weird (even to me) but it was like I felt connected to him instantly, and something inside of me let go of all the pain and everything before and leading up to that. It made me forget everything that had been bothering me.And suddenly it felt like I couldnt breathe...but in a good way.I will never forget it...never. It STILL makes me feel like that 7 years later. I think we just have a chemistry that is extremely strong. I know in my heart that nobody could ever make me feel the way he does.
2007-08-23 07:59:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
After 1 month. The first month I met him he washed my car every weekend, he gave me a massages, rubbed my feet & cooked my dinner. I was a sucker for him :) It worked & I fell in love 10 years ago when I was only 22 & we've been married for 6 years & still in love.
2007-08-23 07:51:49 · answer #7 · answered by Maya 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My husband knew the night before we went shopping for a computer printer (he didn't get ANY sleep that night, and he's a 'champion' sleeper) ... I didn't know until the next day ... and when I realized I was his 'one and only one' and had therefore been 'jealous of myself' (she would have taken him away from me, since I was just his 'best friend') that I laughed so hard I fell out of bed. TRUE STORY. We 'celebrate' on the date HE remembers ... Veteran's Day ... and we also celebrate our wedding anniversary on Valentine's Day ... HE wanted us to get married on that day, because he has a 'lousy memory' and likes all of the 'hearts and flowers' to remind him our anniversary is on that date.
2007-08-23 07:49:22 · answer #8 · answered by Kris L 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
When I open the door. I had prayed the night before and told the lord I would like to have a man Like this man I knew. Because I knew that God was in his life . And the next day he knock on my door and ask me out to the movies.
2007-08-23 07:53:35 · answer #9 · answered by LDJ 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't spend too much time worring about if they are the one. Get to know this person inside and out and after you guys has had the pleasure in knowing each other in and out marriage will come at the time you least expect it.
2007-08-23 07:46:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋