He cheated on me an I found out, got mad but took him back (it wasnt the 1st time) an haven't gotten over it. I am very mean to him because he has never even so much as said SORRY or that he is thankful that I took him back.Its like he expects me to just forget about it.I moved out 3 months ago an just as soon as we moved out he moved in his parents, 19yr son an his sons 17yr girlfriend.I found that i cant make it with our 2 kids an no childsupport from him.I asked if we could come back an he told me NO!An its because I told him that if me an the kids come back that I want his son an his sons girlfriend to move out an so we can be a family.(His parents are not the problem I love them, an his son-its his sons girlfriend she is rude,lazy,an talks alot of crap).I have put up with alot from this man. He has 11 kids(THAT I LOVE) , 4 exs an is 10 years older than me (didnt know any of this til AFTER I fell in love).Should I just forget about them moving out and move back in? Or leave state?
2007-08-23 07:33:40 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You've answered your own question. Ever wonder why he has so many exs?
They got smart.
Get out of there. There are ways for a single mom to get more income. You'd rather be financially independent and poor, rather than stay with that piece of crap.
(You wrote his description like that. Keep that in mind. As I said. You've already answered your own question and made your decision. Now its time to take the action.)
Good Luck!
By the way, child support is not an option for him. Its a check for the children, and required by law. He doesn't do it, the state takes hold of it and he won't like the ramifications.
2007-08-23 07:42:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
RUN!!!! This is an opportunity to save yourself and your children. He is not a good roll model for your children. Get child support, apply for some assistance and get a job. You need to take care of your children. Feelings change and I promise you that in time you will get over your feelings for him. What he is doing is abusive to you and your children. It is time to grow up and frind yourself a real man, not a sperm donor that is a CHEATER!!!! Good Luck!
2007-08-23 15:08:59 · answer #2 · answered by Tadpoler 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok! I only read the first sentence and I don't even need to read the rest. YES! You should have left him a long time ago!. The first time he cheated. Why women go back to cheating men I don't know!!!!!?????
2007-08-23 14:44:42 · answer #3 · answered by Meichelle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U should choose you rmen more wisely and why would you go back into a relationship that went bad and the man didn't even stand up and apologize
2007-08-23 14:38:33 · answer #4 · answered by Frank L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need your head examined and he needs to seriously learn about condoms. Move on get a life take care of your kids.
2007-08-23 14:49:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't want somebody like him, he is going to keep cheating on you and not caring about your forgiveness. If you go back to him, you will be so miserable because he will never change. Take him to court for child support.
2007-08-23 14:48:06 · answer #6 · answered by Scarlet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The Clash
2007-08-23 14:38:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
"should i stay or should i go?"
are you kidding? sounds to me like this ship has sailed. you're out of the house, asked if you could move back in, and he said no.
you're already gone.
2007-08-23 15:21:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you staying with him? Yes, you love him but he has got to love you back the way you do.
You deserve better...don't waste any more of your time.
2007-08-23 14:43:44 · answer #9 · answered by ♥♥♥MiSSY♥♥♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him behind, obviously he is a player, that is why he has so many exes.
2007-08-23 14:50:27 · answer #10 · answered by Sweet Suzy 777! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋