You think years of western woman using the birth control pill has screwed up their minds, metabolism, hormones

Question

And, that is why so many western men look to Asia for a far east bride? One that will get married in white

Answer 1

No western women are not affected by birth control pills. There are enough western men marrying western women that one doesn't even notice the far east venture. White is more traditional then anything else and has more to do with screwed up patriarchy then anything worthwhile.

Answer 2

I think that Western Men's minds are screwed up, and Women are gaining more intelligence every day. That is why you see a Man paying to have a bride. Who mail orders a bride? Men who do that are essentially paying for someone to put up with them, because they can't find a Western Woman to do it. Birth control has little to do with it. Women are realizing now more than ever that we have control, and we are ganing more control every day. We are realizing that we are equal, and we don't have to put up with any BS from husbands, boyfriends, dates, men in general, etc. Women today are taking charge, and of course a scared man would blame it on birth control (something a Man invented non the less!)

Answer 3

You are not the only one that has wondered what the real long term effects are of the medicines and drugs are. In the U.S., just this past 15 years or so, the pharmaceutical companies have been advertising directly to the consumer, pushing this that or the other...and history has shown many of them have been dangerous.
I do not know that you can say the drugs have messed up their minds, and THAT is the reason men look elsewhere for a wife though. I think if this is done by men, there would be other reasons.

Answer 4

Here's my take as a guy. There's this overwhelming stereotype in America these days that most women tend to only care about money, or themselves, as though they're all that matters in a relationship and the guy should serve them.

Now I personally do not acknowledge this as truth at all, it's blasphemy for all I'm concerned, but I've noticed it's widely accepted amongst more and more men. Perhaps because they make bad decisions in the women they choose, or that our society is simply money driven and the vast majority, including men, women and children mostly care about money in life. I don't know, nobody does really.

All other men I know do not want a "docile and serving" wife. Try to be mature, you women on here saying that a man is intimidated by an empowered woman are spouting nonsense, any man out there who's under the age of 50 will have lived with women being empowered their whole lives, it's nothing new or nothing big, and certainly isn't intimidating at all. Get over it and get a new argument if you feel you have to belittle men and be a hypocrite, but most importantly, get over yourself.

As for looking east for a mail order bride. I don't know if where you live that is something that is common, but I've only read about people doing that because they've experienced too much of the usual stereotype of finding bad people to have a relationship with. In which case only reflects their bad decision making with more like minded women here at home.

However, they could also just simply be attracted to Asian/foreign women whom they feel may appreciate them giving them an opportunity in America. There is this, and again I'll say stereotypical... sense that American women feel entitled to everything and treat men as their pets while Foreign women are seen as less likely to do this. Again I don't endorse this view at all, I am against generalizing, it's a sign of low intelligence at best and I am simply telling all of these from an obserationalist's point of view.

Answer 5

Petty wild. Sounds like you wish to impose your cultural views on a nation of free thinking people. Men look to Asian women because they are seeking docile mates and they have had trouble with independent thinking women, you know humans with their own thoughts. I attended a seminar once and a speaker was an educator from Singapore who mentioned that people all over the world have no idea what America is like because they watch television shows from America and do not understand that its fantasy. There is no conclusion that western women are messed up. I guess some of the Asia view might be interpreted by the obsession of Asian men with blond haired American women...who make small fortunes taking money from Asian men. I spent a lot of time in Japan and think Japanese women are incredibly beautiful but they, like American women, are free thinkers and want to be treated more like a partner than a chattel. Your views indicate old world views of women that you try to justify by an opinion that is a bit racist. Whats wrong with people just being people no matter what race or ethnic group?

Answer 6

Unfortunately for me my hormones are screwed up naturally and birth control pills are the only thing that levels them out. I don't know of any data to support that.

They go to asia not for virgins but because the women are docile and easily controlled. American women are allowed to speak thier mind and for the most part have equal rights. Some men are intimidated by this.

Answer 7

I don't think western women's minds have been damaged by birth control any more severly than men's brains have been ravaged by testosterone. To answer your mail order bride question, some men are threatened by women who are their intellectual equals and wrongly assume that an asian woman will be subservient and docile and never challenge them or their masculinity in any way- hence the popularity of asian brides.

Answer 8

They marry those women so they can cook and clean . Not for anything else.
There are 3 issues here.
'White' may not be the issue with these men marrying an Eastern.
And bad effects of the pill are many as all know.

Answer 9

Hmmm.....I would imagine that having someone publically use a scissor and scalpel on my labia and clitoris in order to remove my ability to posess a drive for procreation as they do in Islamic lands when I'm only 12 years old in order to divert my attention away from having a female child would probably cause me to run like a really fast rabbit away to anywhere but there, but what was the question you maniac?




Nad

Answer 10

Well, my pet theory of this is that women's hormones aren't allowed to go through the natural cycle ending up in pregnancy.
Their heads are saying one thing and their bodies are telling them something different.

The usual evolutionary goal of sex is to procreate, to create children. The woman's basic instinct of making children is being thwarted by taking the pill. This may the reason why women are becoming more sexual in nature. They are left in a state of denying themselves children continually. Also, they can indulge in sexual activity without the fear of pregnancy. This is the biggest underlying cause of social change that I can see.

This is just a theory I have, maybe wrong. Please discuss. The feminists won't like it I know. Just wish they could give their honest thoughts on it though.

I don't know about far eastern brides though!