ive had a no contact order for almost 9 months, my boyfriend has served his time in jail & paid his fines on his charges against me. i have court this morning about why i would like it lifted, do you know what i should say this is what i was thinking.
"well hes been in jail for 8 months already now hes in the halfway house, i believe this is alot to make him realize what he did was wrong, & i believe hes honestly willing & ready to change. i love him, we have a beautiful one year old daughter together & he knows how much hes missed out on. i would appreciate it if the no contact order could be lifted, it was modifed while he was in custody & i know that helped alot we talked & figured things out, we discussed the reasons why things happened, & we were both ready & willing to change we have a family & we would love to continue to be the family we once were." is that good? let me know asap thanks
2007-08-23 00:29:21 · 6 answers · asked by Kendra T 1 in Politics & Government ➔ Law & Ethics
Why don't you just say, "I have no self-esteem and would really like to put myself and my beautiful daughter in harms way. Hopefully he won't hurt my daughter physically and psychologically too badly, but oh well mommy's lonely."
2007-08-23 00:49:43 · answer #1 · answered by ○•○•Cassie•○•○ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try honesty...
Your honor, I've been trying for 9 months to find a decent man, but nobody worth a damn wants someone who already has a kid with someone who's in jail. I'm ready to let this piece of sh*t back into my life because he can carry heavier things and get stuff down off of the higher shelves. He's told me that he's going to change and, that this time, he means it. I've heard it all before, and I have no reason to believe it now, but I can't do much better. I hope that having this "no contact" order lifted won't prevent me from getting a new one on him in 6 months.
2007-08-23 00:47:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
The judge is not going to be comfortable lifting a no contact order in which this man has served time for. And he may order you to to stay away from him and if you initiate contact with him he can hold you on contempt of a court order....which means he can put you in jail.
Courts do NOT appreciate this behaviour on your behalf.
Instead of lifting the order, ask for supervized visitation for him and his daughter.
As for you and him, he is going to be on parole or probation and a stipulation of that is going to be to have NO contact with the VICTIM. .....who is YOU. So, if you don't want him to go back to jail do him a favor and your daughter....and stay away from him.....you will cause him more harm than good.
2007-08-23 00:45:02 · answer #3 · answered by Greenie 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
PLEASE think this over. You have a 'no contact' order for a reason. Men do not change overnight. I hope it works out but have doubts. Write back in 6 months.
2007-08-23 00:39:06 · answer #4 · answered by PATRICIA MS 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
He is just going to beat your stupid áss again. Maybe this time, he will hurt or kill your baby girl. Way to go, mom.
Women like you make me sick.
2007-08-23 00:40:04 · answer #5 · answered by robert f 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
That seems good -- as long as it's the truth.
2007-08-23 00:35:18 · answer #6 · answered by coragryph 7 · 0⤊ 4⤋