I need help because I'm always super paranoid about being pregnant. I always have this fear that if things are going well for me then i will get pregnant because I'm not allowed to have things go really well and I need to be punished as a way for the universe to balance or something (i know its messed up!). Things are going well for me now. I just graduated college in May and got a really good job right after i graduated. I just got a new car, and i've been dating a great guy for about 6 months now. So im really scared that i could get pregnant anytime and my life would be ruined. But im 23 and i've never had sex. Sometimes my bf touches me down there then i get really scared that i'm going to get pregnant from that! Help!
2007-08-21 20:34:12 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
Relax. Unless you and your BF actually engage in sexual activity, you cannot get pregnant. If the time comes ya'll decide to begin to have intercourse, make sure to use protection, not only to prevent pregnancy, but also to prevent STD's.
Even using only condoms is not 100% effective against pregnancy. You may want to start on birth control, and also use condoms, to greatly reduce your chances of becoming pregnant.
2007-08-21 21:21:08 · answer #1 · answered by ripsgracie 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You only have a chance of getting pregnant if he cums inside of you. No contraceptive is 100%, so condoms/pills/implants/patches/shots there is always a chance of becoming pregnant.
You will not get pregnant if he touches you there. You are 23 so you should have been through health class already, they would have said the same thing.
2007-08-22 08:27:53 · answer #2 · answered by Terri 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No- just because your boyfriend touches your vagina doesn't mean you'll get pregnant. Without intercourse, the chances of getting pregnant are pretty much zero. However, if he ejaculates on his fingers and then inserts them inside you, there's a very, very slim chance that sperm could be introduced to your cervix and cause pregnancy. Please remember however, that the chances of this are very slim- as in, not likely to happen. Just be safe- if you're afraid of getting pregnant, I'd suggest getting on the pill and using a condom as a back-up method. Doing so will drop your chances to almost zero.
2007-08-22 07:21:11 · answer #3 · answered by Kimmie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hey, don't worry its gonna be okay.
you are just stressed up, due to ur new job, suddenly being on your own, paying bills, etc. etc.
and, u can't get pregnant without having an intercourse, so, just don't worry, everything will soon be ok, u just need to fight your way through it, in my opinion, u should talk to ur boyfriend about it
and, if he doesn't cooperate with u, then he's not the right guy for you
best wishes for your job...
harmeet
2007-08-22 03:47:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
POOR CHILD. DO YOU KNOW ABOUT THE BIRD AND THE BEES? HAVE YOUR MOTHER SAT DOWN AND TALKED TO YOU WHEN YOU WERE GROWING UP? GO SEE A DOCTOR IF YOU ARE PLANNING ON HAVING SEX. SINCE INTIMACY SOMETIMES LEAD TO SEX OR INTERCOURSE, I SUGGEST YOU BE PREPARED. AND PLEASE, HAVE YOUR PARTNER TO ALWAYS WEAR A CONDOM. STOP THINKING NEGATIVE. YOU ARE YOUNG. ALWAYS REMEMBER GOD FIRST AND EVERYTHING WILL BE ALRIGHT. P.S. YOU CAN'T GET PREGNANT BY HIM TOUCHING YOU. ONLY THRU PENETRATION.
2007-08-22 03:48:46 · answer #5 · answered by fmitchell5 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are NOT getting prego by him touching you!! Go get on birth control if you ever think you MAY have actual sex with him... to get prego you must have intercourse and his semen must enter your vagina!!! That ain't happening yet, so quit worrying!
Good Luck!!
2007-08-22 04:39:42 · answer #6 · answered by brooklyn7582 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can't get pregnant unless you do an inter course and he ejaculates inside you.
2007-08-22 03:40:37 · answer #7 · answered by Meeto 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋