As a woman, Is it better to marry someone who you are in love with, whom you have a wonderful sex life with, and get along perfectly most of the time, who has no money, 2 ex-wives and 2 children and cannot provide for you OR with someone who you kinda love, have a ok sex life, has tons of money, and can provide for you forever. Basically whats more important love and no money or like and tons of money? Real responses only please.
2007-08-21 15:01:32 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Marry the one you absolutely love and feel that will make you happier. Money can't but happiness. Money can pay bills and buy material things that you may want but all the money in the world cannot make the butterflies start flying around in your belly when he kisses you. That's a great feeling isn't it. A man with no money but a big heart who can love you to no end, that's worth coming home to everyday.
2007-08-22 13:43:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well sometimes money isn't everything, but your happiness is. If you feel that the man you love is the best thing for your regardless of the money. You should be wit him. ON the other hand if you can't make ends meet with that man you will not be happy. The guy you like, you can learn to love. The sex will probably get better, just teach him how to do what he needs to do right for you. The money will make you happy too.
All in all, you just have to find out which is more important.
2007-08-21 22:10:59 · answer #2 · answered by Red 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You probably won't like this answer dear. I say don't marry either one of them. Sounds like you are not ready for marriage if you are sleeping with both of them.....that would be a pretty strong indication there is no real love....at least not the healthy love to make a marriage work. As far as the money thing, guys HATE gold diggers. Get a job and pool your resources with whomever you choose to marry, and marry for love. Also make sure you can communicate easily. After the looks and the sex fades, you have to have something to keep you going, so you need to be able to talk about anything and everything. In the meantime, if you choose to sleep around, don't even consider marriage because you aren't ready for that kind of committment.
2007-08-21 22:15:08 · answer #3 · answered by FIXITWIZARD 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Romance with Reality
Savor sugar words
Pulse rushing to a touch
Hold tight the triggered yearning
From a voice on the phone
While it lasts
Swim in honey
And be glad
Let it hold you
Over breakfast dirty dishes
Stale cold coffee
Of the years
Sustain you through emergence
Of a human side of humans
Viewed by humans
Toenail clippings
Bad-breath mornings
PMS
And milk gone sour
In the fridge
Sit back remember
Savor sugar words
And be glad
From Poems of the New Old West
Copyright 2003 Jack P
Hope this helps
2007-08-21 22:15:04 · answer #4 · answered by Jack P 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take the tons of money. Sure money isn't everything and it can go in a matter of seconds; but if he can provide for you forever than stick with him.
I mean with the other guy you may think you love him but you may end up being another ex with a kid. Think about it.
2007-08-21 22:09:10 · answer #5 · answered by thepenpal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Neither. I want to be married to the man who loves and respects me, someone I can talk to about everything and who can be honest with me in every way. I want the man who thinks I deserve the best and I want the best for him. And finally the man that I can't possibly imagine living without. Thankfully, I have that man. Without all that, sex, money or any of that doesn't mean anything.
2007-08-21 22:11:37 · answer #6 · answered by dawnb 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can provide for yourself than go for the love. But if you want to be secure than marry for money but sometimes you are happier when you are poor and in love. But you also need to question why he has 2 ex-wives do you want to be the third? but marry for love not money
2007-08-21 22:16:08 · answer #7 · answered by keljulia81 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take it from someone who did it for like and tons of money......go for the love and no money, cause the other does not work in the end...may sound stupid...but Happiness is priceless.....
2007-08-21 22:09:28 · answer #8 · answered by C P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't agree you have only two choices. The guy you're in love with has way too much baggage and has been unsuccessful twice. So far.
Is he also a druggie?
And the second choice is a boring but stable guy?
Life isn't always either black or white, is it?
There are very more choices that are available because you are creating them!
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2007-08-22 01:04:45 · answer #9 · answered by Freesumpin 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Twenty years ago I would say "it much easier to love a rich man than a broke man"
Today I say, Love. Believe me, if love isn't there, you will cheat. (wanting the wonderful sex, compatible companionship, ext.
The phase, 'money can't buy love' is true.
And who knows, the one you truly love may get tons of money someday.
2007-08-21 22:17:40 · answer #10 · answered by Gem 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋