I have been sexually active for over 5 years, but, if I have sex for over 10 minutes or my bf goes to hard or deep, I get swollen to the point where I can no longer have sex for up to 2 days! I use plenty of lubricant, so that's not the problem. Is it possible I am abnormally small down there or what?!?!?
2007-08-21 14:35:15 · 8 answers · asked by Jennifer 3 in Health ➔ Women's Health
This problem is a constant thing happening with 3 different guys, with or without lubricant, and with or without condoms.
2007-08-21 14:46:32 · update #1
Sounds like an allergy, to the condoms or the lubricant [ or your boyfriend ].
See a doctor the next timeit happens, and bring wrappers from any products you used.
Ask if it would be OK to take a benadryl for this.
2007-08-21 14:40:29 · answer #1 · answered by Nurse Susan 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it is b/c you are small. I get it too. I am always in pain after having sex. I haven't found out what causes it either. I have a question though...does this problem affect your relationship, like do you fight about it at all? My boyfriend and I tend to fight about it b/c its gotten to the point where I just don't like sex anymore b/c it puts me in pain. I was just wondering if it affects any other part of your relationship as it does mine.
I know everyone is saying its probably an allergy but I know for a fact that I'm not allergic to ANYthing and we've even tried no condom, different types and it still happens. So it could NOT be just an allergy.
2007-08-21 14:48:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ohh I think you are having a reaction to something - either it is him, the luby-lube or other things that you use. I'd talk to your dr &/or pharmacist about this and see what is non-alergenic or hyper-alogenic in the lube dept. Is it your birthcontrol methond - maybe have him wear a different condom and see if your alergic to that one too - asuming your using condoms, if not then try without one and you'll see if it's him your can't tollerate! Just an idea!
Hope that helps.
2007-08-21 14:47:59 · answer #3 · answered by Four Up 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Since everyone is saying you might be allergic... why not take an allergy medicine about a half hour before sex?
2007-08-21 14:50:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Bitchyer E kinda irritated me cause you said sex with your bf not with a gf. Anyway, I agree with the first person's answer. See a Dr.
2007-08-21 15:47:13 · answer #5 · answered by KM 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
yes that could be your problem but dont try ever to hav sex when u are swollen it could cause lots of damage!
2007-08-21 14:41:45 · answer #6 · answered by NessaLyn 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You could be alergic to the proteins in his semen.
2007-08-21 14:41:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
tell your BF to use a smaller dildo next time :)
good luck and god DOESN'T bless your homo relationship with your "best friend"
2007-08-21 14:40:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 9⤋