Is it too late to change one's mind? The babysitter runs the house already so I see it as a smooth transition. Will my daughter notice the difference or is she too young?
2007-08-21 14:07:48 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
The babysitter is a loving soul so I'll know my daughter will be loved.
2007-08-21 14:13:09 · update #1
You're sick. Yes, she will notice. This is an awful thing to do to your wife. A woman that she trusted with her family! The babysitter will soon see what kind of person you are...hopefully before you do it to her, too!
2007-08-21 14:10:52 · answer #1 · answered by HoneyBee 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
This is really wrong! Don't you care about your wife's feelings. Think about it she hired this babysitter to help her out in life, to make her life easier, not worse. If you weren't happy to begin with why didn't you just let her know so you can move on. You're making things more difficult for everyone involved including your daughter. She may be young now, but sooner or later she'll find out the truth. No matter what your daughter will always love her mommy and most likely she will get resentment towards the babysitter.
2007-08-21 14:16:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Excuse me??? Do you think the babysitter is going to love your daughter as much as your wife( and true mother of the girl) does??? Just because the babysitter is around all day doesn't mean she can replace the kid's mother!!!
Please!!! Don't do that to your kid...think first what's good for your daughter and THEN what's good for you.
Good luck
BTW...how old are you??? Is the babysitter a lot younger than you? She probably just wants you for the money stupid jerk!
2007-08-21 14:13:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You make me SICK, grow up, she gets PAID to be a good MOM while the Real mom is out doing chores, working or worse entertaining the man who she thinks LOVEs her. Why do you feel compelled to be with the sitter, is she younger, cuter what. As far as your daughter goes, whether or not she is old enough to know the difference, one day she will figure it out and most likely wonder why her dad hurt her mom! Get on with your life, your babysitter is just that a baby who sits with another baby!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-08-21 14:15:49 · answer #4 · answered by donnakygirl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
They you will have to hire a new babysitter for your daughter while you and your new wife (your present babysitter) go out. This could become a vicious circle--or never ending line of events. lol
2007-08-21 14:17:39 · answer #5 · answered by old_woman_84 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do your wife a favor and leave her for the babysitter, although the daughter will go with the wife, sorry!
2007-08-21 14:12:23 · answer #6 · answered by Donna J 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You are a POS. I hope that you get an STD from the babysitter and that your wife nails you with a bunch of child support.
2007-08-21 14:10:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
Amazing. I think you're probably trading down tho. Like a Benz for a matchbox car. Hurry and tell your wife about the affair so she can dump you.
2007-08-21 14:16:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for the babysitter, but DON'T MARRY her. She'll even be more suspicous of you than your wife, because she has seen you go through the cheating thing. She has a nicer *** though, so it's cool with me.
2007-08-21 14:12:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you are heading for shoal waters skipper. Didn't you have to leave Scotland for the same reason? Didn't I tell you about fiddling with that moral compass would get you into trouble?
2007-08-21 14:20:15 · answer #10 · answered by Wild Ape 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋