2007-08-21 13:50:40 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I had greta income for 70% of our marriage (around $300,000 per year). We had a nice home, traveled to nice places, had nice cars and I gave her all sorts of nice gifts and thought I treated her very well. She wanted liposuction when we first married and I paid $8,500 for it. Of course money does nto buy love, but the point is I really tried to trreat her nicely and I really adored her. Well, my income took a deep dip and she left about a year and a half later - with our two kids. That's what happened.
2007-08-21 14:03:00 · update #1
We need more info about your relationship. WHy did you split up? Has she ever given you any indication that she would be back?
2007-08-21 13:56:15 · answer #1 · answered by ciao_gina 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Do you want her back? No hon. There is a saying.... "The only thing good reheated is stuffed cabbage."
But love is too wonderful to give only once, and you will find yourself a great lady, on line... Try Match.com or Yahoo Personals... if you need to loose some weight, do it. If you don't have a killer smile, get it at the best cosmetic dentist you can afford--BEAUTIFUL teeth radiate health, and hon healthy is sexy... .... get a pro to help you with some nice clothes, new hair style, and put up a profile on Yahoo Personals.. You 'll meet lots of women who all they want is a great guy, and to have a husband and a family, just as you want.... You'll meet women who you want to see again, but they aren't interested, and women who will want to see you again, and you won't be interested. And you'll meet a nut case or two, just like those sitting next to you in church. But she's out there and all you need to do is find her. When I was again single thru no fault of my own, I found lovely men on Yahoo. We have been together now going into the third year'
From your little note, it looks as if she married you for all the wrong reasons. Find that nice lady who want love....
2007-08-21 14:13:16 · answer #2 · answered by April 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like she was in the relationship for the money. As soon as your income went down, she left you, doesn't that tell you something. I know you must love your children, but think about everything they will see or go through if they see you and your wife together unhappy all the time. The advice I can give you is to move on and be responsible with your children. Move on and try to find someone who will love you for who you are not your money. Good Luck!
2007-08-21 14:09:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she left, and you are ready to move on, file for divorce, go out meet a NICE woman, date, and see what happens. Why should you spend your life waiting on a woman who deserted you, when you could be married with a new baby to raise. Life is short, she obviously felt compelled to move on, so get out there and find a lawyer and maybe a new girl friend! GOOD LUCK!
2007-08-21 14:05:06 · answer #4 · answered by donnakygirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a Marriage takes 2
2007-08-21 14:08:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should try and work it out with her if possible. Why did she leave in the first place and do either of you want the other one back? You need to settle your differences now, good or bad, so you both can move on.
2007-08-21 14:04:32 · answer #6 · answered by RPrincess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she couldn't stand the change in life style. Not much substance to her, huh? I wouldn't wait for her, but instead be the best father you can be under the circumstances and find a new woman to love.
2007-08-21 14:07:25 · answer #7 · answered by mab5096 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot of people believe it's better to move forward in life, than trying to hold onto the past.
You have a choice about which to do, same as the rest of us.
2007-08-21 14:01:29 · answer #8 · answered by Jack P 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dude., you CANNOT buy love. You CAN hire a hooker, but don't ever confuse that with love.
Move on, and find somebody who is actually interested in YOU the next time.
2007-08-21 14:56:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What did you do to make her leave you in the first place?
2007-08-21 13:58:29 · answer #10 · answered by TheWiseOne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋