If you cheated, what was the reason? Was something missing in the relationship? Did you regret it afterwards?
If you had been cheated on, did you give a second chance? Why/why not?
2007-08-21 13:48:12 · 52 answers · asked by foodielovah 3 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
I was cheated on by someone for a very stupid reason. We were 19 at the time and both full time college students; he wanted to get married and I told him we were too young, so he asked if I would have a baby with him. Obviously, I said no. He decided that he would sleep with some girl who also just wanted a baby. They apparently only did it one time and she didn't get pregnant.
I broke up with him immediately after I found out. You should NEVER give a cheater a second chance. If you don't want to be with someone, have the decency to tell them and end it. If something is missing in the relationship, talk about it and get over it and if you can't, then just end it. People don't change; your personality is your personality. If you cheated once, there is a very likely chance that you will do it again. If you really, truly, deeply love someone, you would never even dream of cheating and the victim should realize that they are worth more and deserve someone who will treat them better.
2007-08-21 14:15:05 · answer #1 · answered by lilkrucialkitty 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes to both...yes I've been cheated on & yes I have cheated...I cheated cause I wasn't happy in the relationship at the time & I wasn't nice enough to just break off the relationship if I wasn't happy, for the other times I cheated I done so cause I was cheated on first...we all make those kind of mistakes in our younger ages...currently I am happily married & I haven't cheated on my husband in the 8 years that we have been together....Do I regret cheating back in my younger days? Honestly...I have cheated more than once & yes some I have regretted...others I have not.
And as for second chances...I don't give em.
2007-08-21 13:57:37 · answer #2 · answered by Black Cat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've never cheated, but I have been cheated on. My first serious boyfriend cheated on me after 2 months of being together, so I dumped him. It took me a long time to get over him, but I don't give second chances. What if they contracted an STD? What if he got the other chick pregnant? I wouldn't be able to trust him again. So, the relationship would be like walking on broken glass 24/7. It's not worth the self torture.
2007-08-21 13:57:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have cheated, because the relationship was going waay downhill. I don't regret it. However, I did feel guilty because later, I ended the relationship.
I have been cheated on. I NEVER gave them a second chance, nor shall I in the future. If I gave them a second chance I'd only run the risk of running into the same mistakes.
2007-08-21 13:53:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was the cheater ... My exboyfriend just wouldn't leave!! He couldn't take the hint that I didn't want to be with him and I kept trying to break it off but ... Nothing I did or said got rid of him. He swore he loved me and that having sex meant you loved someone .. Yeah uh huh. The guy was also possesive, demanding and refused to allow me to have friends! I mean really I had no life ... It was awful ..
Anyways I met the other guy, moved to another country and married the guy I was cheating on him with... Wouldn't have been cheating if he'd just f'd off like I wanted. And NO I have never regretted it. I'm happy as can be and have no reason to ever cheat again!
2007-08-21 13:57:23 · answer #5 · answered by Rhyannonn C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have cheated one time in my life. I have no good excuse for it. I don't believe in making excuses for it but there isn't a day that has gone by in 5 years since it happened that I haven't regretted it. Seeing the look of total devastation on my husband's face was not worth whatever pleasure I thought I was getting from doing it.
2007-08-21 13:55:34 · answer #6 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was cheated on by my ex-husband. I did not give him a second chance because that was his second chance. He had been unfaithful during our engagement. I forgave him after 3 months of his persistence. I had originally dumped him but he kept calling and coming by, even the second time he tried but I knew better the second time around.
2007-08-21 13:56:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my ex boyfriend cheated on me. with my OLD best friend (which is like a double slap in the face) i dont really know exactly why he cheated. when i went to break up with him, i didnt give him the chance to explain. i just ended it quickly. i didnt give that bastard a second chance because, knowing him, he would have done it again.
i would never cheat on someone. i think everyone has the right to be honest. whats the point of spending time with someone if your not even completely into them? its just a waste of time.
2007-08-21 13:57:10 · answer #8 · answered by x_LITTLE_RED_♥_MCR_x 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes to both, I cheated on my ex-husband with my now husband of 13 yrs, My ex and I fought all the time and he had cheated on me but I wasn't for sure about it until our divorce was going through and I found out he had asked my sisters husband for advice because he didn't know what to do because he was cheating on me, no one told me until we were already split up. I don't regret it because I am very happy now.
2007-08-21 13:55:22 · answer #9 · answered by Beth 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been cheated on a lot.
I cheated once. I did it because my bf at the time had been cheating on me for 2 or 3 months. I didn't tell him I did. I did it for myself. Needless to say, I ended the relationship with my bf, but not before I had made him choose between me and her. He chose me... Then, I broke up. He couldn't go back to the other one because he had taken advantage of her and she knew.
I will never do it again.
2007-08-21 13:57:40 · answer #10 · answered by Papillon 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋