I am lonely and I know its all been said before but it hurts
I am a married man not looking an affair I dont believe in playing around I just want to talk to someone who will try to understand
I havant had sex for years and I love my wife to bits though she has a hell of a temper we have had some good times
help me
2007-08-21 12:54:49 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Well loving someone doesnt mean you have to be neglected.............Tell your wife how you feel......... if she loses her temper again....... tell her you arent going to live that way any longer............ Life is too short not to be happy........... my Dad told me this when I was a little girl.......and believe me I remember that every day............it is too short........ why be miserable...... even though you love her....... you arent happy.......
2007-08-21 13:21:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you two need to sit down and talk about what went wrong in your relationship. If you two are having difficulties understanding each other or communicating effectively like a married couple, I recommend seeing a marriage counselor.
2007-08-21 12:58:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds like your living in a prison not a marriage,if your unhappy and lonely then why do you stay?its not healthy its torture.it couldnt be any worse if you were on your own,atleast you could go out and meet people,join a club or something,i guess you have sat her down and talked to her about how you feel what was her answer?... e mail me if u want fairy_gdmthr@yahoo.co.uk
2007-08-21 21:01:40 · answer #3 · answered by fairy_gdmthr 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You both need to go and see a Marriage Guidance Counsellor, or you need to talk with each other to try and sort things out. It sounds as though you ought to be more assertive and don't let her walk all over you. Perhaps you have 'let yourself go'? In other words, do you bath regularly, use aftershave, dress smartly? I hope you can sort your problem out.
2007-08-21 13:24:40 · answer #4 · answered by Sandee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would love to help you but you didn't say why no sex or how long it's been or if their are health issues here.Sorry but not to much to go on, i can tell you what everyone else is,which by the way means nothing. Give me more to go on and i will try to help.
2007-08-21 13:10:22 · answer #5 · answered by Teenie 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hello David, i know it's hard and yes it hurts but really can't you talk to your wife or write her a long detailed letter letting her know how you feel..shame to give up on the good times and a real shame not to be enjoy a loving sexual part of a relationship,do talk to her and good luck xx
2007-08-21 14:31:44 · answer #6 · answered by Redmuppet 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need counseling -- either go with her or without her. Is this the way you want to live the rest of your life?
2007-08-21 12:59:17 · answer #7 · answered by Emily Dew 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WELL DAVE. I KNOW HOW YOU FEEL. I FELT BAD TOO WHEN WE BROKE UP PROBALY JUN HIGH. WE HAVEN/T TALKED TO EACH OTHER FOR A LONG TIME.
SINCE 1986 FIRST TIME I SAW HER. SHE/S ONLY 5 FT 4. AND SHE CAN YELL LOUD. GOD KNOWS WE FELT BAD
ABOUT IT. GOD HELPED US OF GETTEN ALONG.ASKED GOD TO HELPED YA.
2007-08-21 13:16:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
have you tried to talk to your doctor as they can get you to talk with a person who can listen and advise you, I had this help 2yrs ago and it made things a lot better for my family.
2007-08-21 13:00:18 · answer #9 · answered by chutechchu 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
huh? just ask her for some!
2007-08-21 12:58:06 · answer #10 · answered by foreveri<3atl 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋