I mean how can you learn to trust yourself and who you are? What gives some people that confident and out-going nature?
2007-08-21 11:43:30 · 5 answers · asked by violin_nerd11 1 in Social Science ➔ Other - Social Science
You just believe in yourself and your abilities. Confidence comes from with in.
2007-08-21 11:47:43 · answer #1 · answered by Hot as Ice 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's only one way that I have found
(and trust me, it took 33+ years before I figured it out...!)
"Think before you act...figure out what is the RIGHT thing for you to do -- then DO IT!"
You do that often enough, and you start to respect yourself on a very deep level.
Once you respect your SELF, you respect others more and they respect you more.
Before you know it, you're strong and happy, all at the same time.
That makes you confident, which, in turn, makes you as outgoing as you want to be.
Bear in mind, not everyone has to be a hurricane in order to be considered "outgoing" -- OK?
That's actually quite irritating -- outgoing is one thing; being a steam roller is another!
Outgoing people are interested in others, are alert and approachable, able to focus on conversations, care about others' feelings and perceptions, and do not monopolize the conversation with their latest and greatest exploits....you may actually be a LOT more "outgoing" than you realize!
Nobody enjoys "the life of the party" 24 - 7!!
Just be you, sweetheart.
Do what you know is right, and do it consistently, and your confidence will mature along with you.
Believe it or not, it's a lot easier said than done! : )
2007-08-21 12:02:50 · answer #2 · answered by swanngranny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It has to do mostly with how you are raised by your parents and also your genetic disposition. I mean you could try to gain more confidence by taking little steps of success until you feel comfortable in taking big steps to success. Yet there is a lot to be said about genes and parenting.
2007-08-21 11:54:19 · answer #3 · answered by mac 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
actually its nature, training, home environment, school tt build / mould our character. we hv to start fr young. some sch do teach speech / public speaking skills. also we nned to hv knowledge. with it and from experience we develop tt confidence. but somehow i see tt families tt r quiet, tend to upbring children tt r quiet too. tts somehow seem unfair - but we need all kinds to make this world. and sometimes when tooooo outgoing we annoy others. as an old saying: empty vessel makes the loudest noise.
2007-08-22 23:02:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to develop a pattern of success. Build on your strengths and be aware of your limitations. Then just GO for it.
2007-08-21 11:56:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋