change who you are..
2007-08-21 11:22:07 · 16 answers · asked by × 7 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
I am in such a struggle right now........I am nice ole damn miss ellie that is struggling with her 'dark side evil granny' who want's to come to the fore and SMASH THE TROLL PATROL.
2007-08-21 11:27:02 · answer #1 · answered by missellie 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. I don't think it needs to be a struggle. I think that we are all pretty aware of who we are and who we are not.
I can be hard to accept ourselves for who we are, but once we do, it is easier to either change or accept what we think is undesirable.
Sometimes, changing who we are is not the answer. Sometimes it is about acceptance.
2007-08-21 18:32:38 · answer #2 · answered by NolaD 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think a part of finding out who we are is sort of like "trying on" the various things we are not. That's why I think when we are discovering ourselves as teenagers we go through different stages where we want to join different crowds & see where we fit. I think everyone goes through a period where they "try on" something that they are not just to see if it's who they really are deep down inside.
2007-08-21 18:29:19 · answer #3 · answered by ☆ Heavenly ☆ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm a recovering addict/alcoholic. I definately had to struggle within myself to change from the person I was.
Good question...star for you.
2007-08-21 18:30:33 · answer #4 · answered by WildOne 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The struggle is what defines our soul's character within this universe.
It's the YIN YANG of nature.
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2007-08-21 18:29:11 · answer #5 · answered by JERSEY BOY ♠♥♦♣ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I guess it comes down to why you're making changes. Are you doing them to impress someone or are they changes that need to be made to make you a better person?
2007-08-21 18:32:36 · answer #6 · answered by Thunderman9 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I used to try to change myself. Now I just go with what I want and buy things (clothes, books, music) based on what I think is "cool."
I like to think my own sense of style is what makes me who I am, and without my own sense of what I want to be on my own, I wouldn't be "me."
:)
2007-08-21 18:29:53 · answer #7 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i dont think it matters....i know this is gonna sound bad but Ive tried to change a lot of things about myself to keep my partner happy when we were together, and i couldn't do it..at all!! i think changes just come naturally and there is no rushing it!
2007-08-21 18:25:37 · answer #8 · answered by New York Chic 6 · 3⤊ 1⤋
i struggle to open the packaging on this dang candybar.
2007-08-21 18:27:14 · answer #9 · answered by Scratch-N-Sniff 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no not always sometimes conservation of my energy is a good thing
2007-08-21 18:26:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋