Would still consider dating them?
I have to say, I am truly disgusted by them right now. I didnt know they all thought we were like the girls from flavor of love. My bf is White, and I cant even stand looking at his picture anymore.....
2007-08-21 11:21:54 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Other - Cultures & Groups
all white guys don't think alike sweetie. you should know your boyfriend well enough to know if he isn't like that. some people just post ridiculous things to try and make us look stupid to feel better about themselves.don't pen it all on the whole race.
some of the flavor of love girls did act ridiculous but not all.
new york was'nt angry, she was just stupid...and weird.
where did yousee these nasty comments. please let me know.
2007-08-21 11:30:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 9⤊ 0⤋
Yes I do and why would I care what some jackass on yahoo or anywhere else determine whom I date. Black men say some disgusting, unforgivable things about black women and yet black women still defend them. I think that if you dump your boyfriend (granting that he treats you well) because of some shiz on yahoo then your dumb as hell. Their is good and bad in every race, black, white, asian and running to another race to escape it is not going to do anything. I love and date white men because that is what I'm attracted to, however, that doesn't mean I don't know some jerks, and racist assholes that are white. They are out there and I work and go to school w/ many of them. I also work and go to school with blacks and other races of the same caliber but on that note I know many people of many races including black and white that are great, educated, open-minded, fun, funny and overall cool people. You just have to understand that you are going to good and bad in everything that you do in life.
2007-08-25 11:19:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi
I was reading your article and remembered about what had happened to me. I came to U.S in 2005 to spend summer break with my American friends. One night, I met a white guy whom I thought was very decent person. We went out together for a short time until he made some rude comments about Maori. I'm a Maori girl from New Zealand. Then I found out he was the son of a KKK member in AL. I was like, what the **** and immediately dumped him. Not all the white guys are disgusted when it comes to making negative comments, some good, some **** Maybe you met the wrong guy, but you will meet someone else who will respect you nicely. If you really love your bf, maybe you give him a chance, make sure he knows how you are feeling, etc..?? Good luck. We are human beings, living in the world, society changes, emotional involved and we deal with them, it's part of our lives.
2007-08-21 18:45:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
so when black celebrities go on television and say that your a gold digger, say that your low class, and say all many other stereotypes (and believe me I know that they are stereotypes) what does that do to you? honestly this is the internet and many people are going to say many things, negative and positive but if you allow something as trivial as that separate you from someone you are suppose to love than you are not mature enough to be in a relationship with anybody. You need to grow up and realize that your bf is not those jerks!
2007-08-25 10:50:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Okay, first you shouldn't compare your boyfriend to some narrow minded and ignorant people on this site. Not all white men are like that, just a few just like any other person regardless of their race. You have to pick people based on their personally and look at them as an individual. Don't group all people together just because they share the same race. Their are good and bad people within any race.
2007-08-21 23:08:57 · answer #5 · answered by ♥♥Bree♥♥ 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
hi mira. i dont care what the "white guys" (and the reason i put it in quotations is because they arent probably even white. remember, this is the internet. people do pose) say about black women on here. it wont change my mind about dating them. you have to understand that if you let people like them get to you, then you let them win and you wind up unhappy.
i dont live my life for someone else esp. trolls. half the time they are doing this just to ruffle your feathers. there are white men out there that like black women. you cant let a few people get to you.
i cant help who im attracted to. i will never date a black man. i think that they are attractive but as far as me being physical with one....i cant see it. i also dont like what some of the stand for.
you have to grow some tough skin and dont sweat the petty stuff and ignore all the rude comments about us.
2007-08-21 19:53:45 · answer #6 · answered by Bore sum 1 else w/ ur question! 6 · 3⤊ 1⤋
As a white girl, I understand what you are saying. I'm personally disgusted with all people because all groups have their ignorant people who say things they shouldn't. Have you listened to a rap song lately? Would you hold what black men say about women against all black men? Treat your boyfriend like an individual. Not all people are the same and Yahoo! is a breeding ground for ignorance because people don't have to be accountable for what they write on here. Keep it in perspective.
2007-08-21 18:31:37 · answer #7 · answered by Delete 4 · 7⤊ 1⤋
I don't date white dudes, never have. But I get more compliments from them than any other race, they also hit on me the most. I don't really care about the comments, It actually makes me happy to see it cause I'm hopping they really take what they say for real and stop trying to get with me, I guess they don't know they wouldn't stand a chance. LOL!
2007-08-21 18:29:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 10⤊ 1⤋
I became quite like that a long time ago; because of many of the remarks on here I don't want any personal intimate or barely friendships with white males
I am trying to think and feel otherwise but it's "hard"
2007-08-21 19:09:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 2⤋
don't be disgusted!Not all of them r like that. Just about 1-8th
I still hate that Dean Dick[lol] and Robert Krackdem[lol] and stuff. I'm disgusted too.I didn't know they thought we were like the girls from the flavor of love either.I don't like to retalliate or anything, but sometimes I have to say stuff about them. my cousin is mixed though, and he's still mad at them[I don't blame him though]
2007-08-21 18:36:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 1⤋