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Is a gay always a gay , could he be straight at some point in time and now convert to a gay. Can a straight guy convert into a gay .

2007-08-21 11:13:55 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture Cultures & Groups Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

23 answers

You were born straight or gay, and that cannot be changed.

The sooner we realize that this is just who we are and how we were born the less guilt there is for all concerned -- Instead of trying to figure out the cause of a person 'becoming' gay, we need to simply accept it and move on with our lives.

2007-08-25 04:15:47 · answer #1 · answered by Kedar 7 · 3 0

Interesting question. I have known people that were supposedly straight to suddenly become gay, but never the other way around. I believe that an individual has to be born gay, and that it's not something that they can change. Studies show that gay people are born with an additional chromosome that adds feminine or masculine characteristics and accounts for their sexual preference. For example: while we are born with XY chromosomes for male and XX for female, an individual can have XX with a latent y chromosome or XY with another latent x chromosome. This is what some scientist and genealogist account for homosexuality as a biological factor. That's something that cannot be altered or changed just by deciding not to be gay anymore.

2007-08-21 11:23:01 · answer #2 · answered by sustasue 7 · 2 0

I converted from straight to gay my girlfriend and I were well on our way to calling it quits. One day I had a cute guy hit on me out of the blue. I had never been picked up on by a guy before but when he asked me if I had ever been with a guy I got turned on. We did it all night and I have been with guys since then.

2007-08-21 12:17:18 · answer #3 · answered by Daisy 1 · 0 0

it's not a matter of "converting". It's a matter of discovering your true sexual identity.

If a "straight" person becomes gay, it's because he/she always was gay, but fought it, denied it, tried not to be it, until they realized the only way they are going to have a chance at happiness was to accept who they are and live an open and honest life.

2007-08-21 11:25:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

No, it is been tried by skill of psychiatry, suggestions surgery, prayer, yet all the victims have remained the way God made them. it is going to corrode your soul to tutor your total existence right into a lie. merely settle for your self for what you fairly are. Be your self; it is the main helpful element. comprehensive your education first, then flow to a different section to artwork. come out ,once you sense like it, to the individuals you desire to contain on your intimate circle. you have been given the excellent present of being gay. settle for it and use it to develop your character. you will meet some marvellous human beings and stay a happy and fulfilled existence. it is our civilisation. without lesbian, Florence Nightingale, and a gay guy, Alan Turing, maximum individuals alongside which contain your loved ones, could probable no longer additionally be alive.

2016-10-08 23:56:43 · answer #5 · answered by blust 4 · 0 0

If you were straight and converted to being gay, you were gay to start with. You just can't start out straight and become gay.

2007-08-21 11:16:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 4 1

I couldn't see it happening since I know I was born gay. I couldn't see my ever turning straight, so I couldn't see a straight person ever turning gay.

2007-08-21 11:17:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2 0

no one can change who they innately are. people claim that they can "cure" someone who is gay, but that right-wing fundamentalists who use emotional and even physical abuse to brain-wash people. all they want is for us to lie to ourselves and everyone else and live a miserable life...so that they can be happy or think they actually accomplished something good...when all they are doing is destroying young peoples lives. I know someone who was sent to one of those places where they try to "cure" you....he got out of there pretty quick!

2007-08-21 14:23:47 · answer #8 · answered by redcatt63 6 · 0 0

April 5Th 1999 was the day I woke up and deiced to be gay, I just felt like it. -Humor

no you can't convert unless you're gay or bi to begin with

2007-08-21 11:18:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1 1

Yeah, I think you could I mean also you could try it....you can always make a choice. Its all what you want to do and how you want to do it. Well, just e-mail me some time. slowgo91@yahoo.com

2007-08-21 11:22:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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