I was considering trying to get her to go see my friend, who is a doctor, in order to trick her into it (she has health issues). So I figured that I could get my doctor friend to try to tell her she needs an abortion for the sake of her health
2007-08-21 10:31:13 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
you are a tool! i pity your girl friend and your child
2007-08-21 10:50:50 · answer #1 · answered by miss.marky 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Not only as a female but as a person, I think it is absolutely WRONG to try to *trick* someone into having an abortion. If she is pregnant she will have to go to her regular doctor anyway, and if there are any real health issues that doctor should discuss those with her. Any sane doctor who knows there patient is pregnant and knows they have health issues isn't going to just not say anything. If your girlfriend has been to her doctor, I'm sure these things have been discussed. And as always, abortion is a personal choice. You shouldn't try to make someone get one or talk them into it. They should choose whether to get it or not.
2007-08-21 10:41:07 · answer #2 · answered by who cares anyway? 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You should never have sex again. For you to think something so cruel to do to some one you should never again. How pathetic are you. If you can't handle the consequences that derive from your actions then you don't deserve the chance to be a father. Leave her alone. And I'm sorry but I think it's something for her and her family to decide not for you to trick her into. If her health is in danger her doctor will tell her. She shouldn't be tricked into it. Not to mention the fact about your doctor friend. If he was actually willing to trick her then he shouldn't be a doctor. So in other words you don't talk her into it. You have a conversation with her parents and her and even her doctor. It is NOT your decision to make.
2007-08-21 10:43:23 · answer #3 · answered by Melissa L 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you can't trick her or talk her in to it.
she has to make the decision on her own. you can discuss it with her.
if her health issues are that serious that she or the baby are in harms way if she continues the pregnancy that is something her obgyn or primary dr should talk to her about. if she allows you to be there during the discussion you can put your 2 cents worth in.
ask her to meet with your friend to talk about her health and the pregnancy but don't go on the premise of tricking her and tying her to a table to abort the fetus. or whatever your goal for that meeting would be for.
2007-08-21 10:40:31 · answer #4 · answered by nataliexoxo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you on a pregnancy board asking a bunch of emotional expectant moms how to trick your girlfriend in to letting you terminate her pregnancy? Is she so slow that you'd actually be able to get her to the doctors office and on the table without asking WTH you think you're doing? If you don't want kids than stop having irresponsible sex!!!
2007-08-21 10:42:13 · answer #5 · answered by Notagain 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I don't understand how you are asking this question after you answered Old Hot Mama's question about having her 10th abortion. You didn't like her asking about getting an abortion but yet you are going to trick your own gf into getting one? Grow up
2007-08-21 10:58:36 · answer #6 · answered by Rachael S 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You mean to say you are willing to emotionally scar your girlfriend for the rest of her life, just because you can't own up to being a man. How do you look at yourslef in the mirror everyday? You need to stop being selfish and think about your girlfriend, what she is going through and what SHE WANTS to do about it. I really hope she goes to see another HONEST doctor and then leaves your pathetic ***. You don't deserve her!
2007-08-23 13:46:18 · answer #7 · answered by k_lamore 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So you are having trouble talking to her straight. I can see why. You could not talk to her about birth control either? But yet you had no trouble pulling down her panties.
Go get it snipped since you just want to play and not take any responsibility.
2007-08-22 13:13:55 · answer #8 · answered by lily 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you can't talk her into it or trick her.. she is the one that has to deal with the abortion for the rest of her life not you.. you don't want to have an unplanned pregnancy don't have sex or wrap it up. you are not a good boyfriend at all.
2007-08-21 11:26:11 · answer #9 · answered by ♥MyLife 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
That is just wrong! You should not trick your gf into anything! If she wants to get an abortion she will. If she doesn't want to get one, you should respect her decision.
2007-08-21 10:39:35 · answer #10 · answered by Kristen P 2 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Your name fits you very well.
You seem like a tool.
If you dont want to be there she will be better off without you!!!
Talk to her about your concerns, and how you honestly feel.
Wow.
Dont distroy her life by not letting her know the truth to make yours easier.
2007-08-21 10:44:48 · answer #11 · answered by SARAH D 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋