I really dislike children. But for some odd reason for the past month I get these urges to have a baby and I've been really emotional. My husband and I eventually want a baby just not for the next 5 years or so. What can I do to get rid of these urges and get back to normal?
2007-08-21 10:13:09 · 8 answers · asked by kamakazee 3 in Health ➔ Women's Health
my husband is 15 years older than me and wants a child really bad. I just don't want to lose my freedom and independance that's why I dislike them. I'll eventually have one for him after I am done with college and have earned my masters.
2007-08-21 10:27:02 · update #1
You Might Dislike Other Children But Like People Always Tell Me When You Have Your Own Child Its Way Different.
2007-08-21 10:18:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
I do not understand why you would bring children of your own into this world if you admittedly do not like children. Don't bring a child into this world just to do what others do. No child asks to come into this world and when they are they should be loved and cared for unconditionally. Not every one is cut out to be a parent. You are just feeling mother natures call - but you do not have to react on it.
2007-08-21 17:21:17 · answer #2 · answered by emtd65 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
um....What? You really dislike children but want to have one in the future. Hmmmmm What the heck is your question again? Oh yeah how to get rid of your maternal urges. I have no idea. sorry
2007-08-21 17:22:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should NOT have a baby for him....just because he wants one. What if something were to happen to him or you got divorced? Who do you think would be raising the baby? You would. This is something that should have been talked through before you got married. If YOU don't want kids, then you shouldn't have them. Kids deserve to be born to 2 parents who love and wanted them.
2007-08-21 17:30:10 · answer #4 · answered by First Lady 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Ha! Go babysit a friends toddler for four hours. Best birth control in the world. Trust me.
2007-08-21 17:19:51 · answer #5 · answered by Yup Yup Yuppers 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could volunteer to babysit some toddlers for an evening. That should remind you of the things they do and need that you're not quite ready for yet.
Good for you for knowing when you're not ready yet, though.
2007-08-21 17:23:38 · answer #6 · answered by Emmy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go visit a daycare or park... maybe if you see the kids running around, it'll turn you off. lol good luck.. and p.s. if you dislike children, go get your tubes tied, there are enough kids in the world not getting the parental support they deserve...
2007-08-21 17:19:14 · answer #7 · answered by IvyDale 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
if you dislike children, why do you want to have a baby?
2007-08-21 17:17:21 · answer #8 · answered by totalhealthinterventions 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋