Lady's how do you know when you really orgasm?

Question

Okay you're probably getting out your I Hate Idiots T-Shirt but basically how do you know you're not just getting worked up in the heat of the moment (no pun intended). And this is by no means meant to be a perverted question because I am a girl.

Answer 1

well...you tend to get wetter than you were just moments before, shake, tingling sensation down below, heart beats even faster. You feel out of control of you body.

Answer 2

I don't know how to explain it w/out being graphic and lengthy but you need to have a build up, a climax, and in the end you should feel a refreshed or relaxed feeling. If you've never masterbated then you should. Even if you think its gross because I promise it is the BEST way to learn. And yes girls do LEARN to orgasm. If your asking this question you've probably never had one. Touch yourself and teach yourself what you like and enjoy your first orgasm!

Answer 3

Not to be mean, but if you're asking, you probably haven't had one. You'll know if you do. If your guy isn't doing it for you, get him to do more foreplay and really concentrate on you. If he's worth keeping, he'll want to please you and try things to see what you respond to. If he's not interested in making sure you enjoy yourself, get rid of him ASAP because he's not worth anything. Also remember that you must reciprocate, so spend time on him. You'll probably find it's fun.

Good luck! :)

For ideas there are a lot of books and articles on sexual enjoyment. The most ancient is, of course, the Kama Sutra. It's always interesting to read things to expand your knowledge of the world, but that doesn't mean you have to try it if it doesn't sound like you'd enjoy it. Remember, it's about having fun for the two of you.

Answer 4

I have had sex many times and I have only had two full on orgasms. It is hard to explain and the cliche "you just know" comes to mind. Basically, you feel tingly and every inch of your being is in that very moment. It feels really. really, good and with every moment it feel even better, like you can feel not only the climax but yourself working up to one. I felt pulsating, energy like when somebody tickles you, but a little different. It feel like you are being tickled almost. And you also know because (at least in my case) you have never felt that way before.

Answer 5

Well.........to be very serious with you after the initial orgasm you will be very sentive in that area, you may also jerk a little trust me you will know it when it happens. I'm not being rude but maybe you should bring yourself to orgasm and then you will be sure there are many books on the subject if you feel you need hellp. Good luck

Answer 6

I wish I knew :( I am 21 and still think female orgasims are a myth. Although some women can not reach an orgasim. I think I may be one of those chicks. It sucks though because I am always horney, but the second I start to feel good I lose interest.

Answer 7

It's not a stupid question. For the longest time I went without knowing if I were having an orgasm or not. The muscles in your pelvic floor with contract when you have an orgasm- that's the most effective way to tell.

Answer 8

You usually feel contractions in your pelvis muscles and very wet. Some (but not many) women do "squirt" (like a man). Usually it's an internal reaction to repeated arousal, followed by an overwhelming sense of well-being (thanks to the hormones released during the orgasm).

Answer 9

Well, when I'm getting worked up my mind wonders else where. All that is on my mind is me and the thing that is working me up to climate. Then I start to feel this tingle and then the tingle gets bigger and bigger until I have an orgasm. Hope this helps.

Answer 10

If you can't tell, you haven't had one. All women deserve to experience orgasm. . Maybe you should practice some more. (And I mean this in the kindest way.) Try more oral sex. Works every single time!