Why does my wife?(Mature answers only please)?

Question

When me and my wife are intimate she always have to goto the bathroom at the very end but she says nothing comes out. She says it isn't an orgasm but she feels the urge to go pee really bad and has to go. We went to about 5 different doctors and they said it was nothing and she has no infections or anything wrong.

So what is wrong with her or am I doing something wrong? She get's really upset having to get in the mood again just to finish.

Should I try to convience her to keep going and see what happens so we can get rid of this little mystery and understand each other as husband and wife should?

***If all your going to say is "To much information" please just move along or I will have to report you. Tired of kids just answering for 2 pts.***

"Does it happen to your wife in all positions or just some. It happens to me most often when I am on my stomach and he is on top of me."

When she is on top......mines bend upwards slightly........

Answer 1

In my opinion, I think you should try to convince your wife to keep going until she reaches an orgasm, even if she feels like she has to pee. When she says she has to pee, keep going because usually the peeing sensation means that she's on the edge and about to encounter what they call a, "female ejaculation." It's the most intense orgasm there is and when she finally orgasms, she should squirt or gush a clear spray of liquids (it's not urine, so don't be alarmed if it happens). I suggest trying to keep going... just to see if really does pee or the fact she's about "ejaculate." Believe me, you could be doing something very, very right. Just discuss it with her and tell her it's OK, it's something between you two, and you love her so much that you don't mind whether she does pee or not. You're her husband and you just want to make it as pleasurable and comfortable it can be for her. Check out the link I provided and some additional research wouldn't hurt. Hope this helps!

Answer 2

Some women confuse the urge to pee with an orgasm. Maybe you are doing something right and she is confusing the tingling happy feelings with the need to pee? I would say to just go for it... but I'm not sure how freaked out you would be if she accidentally peed on you. Maybe you should try doing it in the shower? Or bathtub? Swimming pool? That way you can explore exactly what is going on.

Also, if you are touching her urethra and not her clitoris, it tickles and makes you pee. So, if you are rubbing against that, then that may explain the whole pee thing. I do that to myself before a movie at the theater to make myself pee so I won't miss anything.

Good luck!!!

Answer 3

What MIGHT be happening is that her bladder is being stimulated during intercourse.

The woman's bladder and vaginal wall are VERY close neighbors, so when the thrusting happens, it might be rubbing the bladder wall, making her experience the sensation of needing to urinate.

I don't know what the solution to the problem would be, except maybe trying different positions, and having her make sure she urinates prior to intimacy.

The only other suggestion I would make is to have her go to specialist who deals with female anatomy (not necessarily a urologist or a gynecologist but one who has dealt with this problem). It may take a lot of phone calls and/or appointments but hopefully someone will have an answer for you.

Answer 4

Nothing is wrong with her... After me and my husband have made love I always have to go the bathroom.. Sometimes i have to pee other times I feel as though I do but I don't. I too have asked my doctor about this and i was told it's just my body and how it reacts to certain things ex. Such as the back and forth motion of intercourse. It's really hard to explain. But i can asure you that she is not the only one that goes through this.

Answer 5

It's a result of anatomy, nothing that you or she did. You're probably putting too much pressure on her bladder. It's pretty close to the uterus, and sex definitely makes the woman feel like she has to pee. You can try different positions to see if that alleviates some of the pressure, or help her along manually or orally which won't be as hard on her bladder.

Answer 6

I think it's normal...I know a lot of women that experience this! It's most likely caused from ureteral and bladder irritation during sex. I was always told by doctors that women should urinate after sex to clear out any potential bacteria that may have entered the urethra during sex.
I don't think there's anything wrong with you or her...if there is, there's a lot of us with the same problem!

Answer 7

I feel like that too. I think it is because my boyfriend is very curved to the left and he hits my bladder. Does it happen to your wife in all positions or just some. It happens to me most often when I am on my stomach and he is on top of me.

Answer 8

Yep when you are hitting "the spot" it feel like you have to pee and that is probably what she is feeling. I have the urge and I never really pee, even if some liquid comes out, it isnt urine it is a woman's ejaculation. She needs to just finish out the sex session and she will feel pleasure, it isnt uncommon she isn't a freak, she is just about to ejaculate!! So she needs to!

Good luck!

Answer 9

I have never heard of this , but I would let her try to finish it just might be her bodies way of hitting that point ... I sure it is very frustrating But hang in there , I do not think you are doing some thing wrong or maybe you can .just adventure with oral sex and see if she still feels the same ??????

Answer 10

Often when the gspot is stimulated, it first feels like you need to urinate. However, if you ignore this and just keep going, it goes away and you just feel pleasure. I haven't noticed this particularly, but many of my friends have.