why would girls NOT BLEED when they have sex for the first time??? Whats the cuase of that???? Im a virgin and I'm scared that I'm not ganna bleed and my Fiance is like if you don't bleed that means your not a virgin and he will dump me!! I'm scared I AM A VIRGIn and his like scarin meee!!!
2007-08-21 09:47:13 · 5 answers · asked by AmY 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
The hymen is very elastic but it can also be quite delicate. Many girls will have torn their hymen before they ever get around to having sex. I broke mine when I was 10 by masturbation. I didn't lose my virginity until I was almost 18 and there was no blood at all.
Some girls have a very elastic hymen that stretches a lot and doen't break until they have quite rough sex or get a partner with a thicker penis.
The hymen is NOT an indicator of virginity.
If he dumps you over that then he wasn't worth it! He never had a hymen, but he was a virgin once too.
2007-08-21 12:16:37 · answer #1 · answered by Seraphim 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
actually very few women bleed anymore during their first time having sex. The hymen is a thin skin membrane that is easily broken from sports, tampons, horseback riding, and other things. Also, if you are about 20 or older and having sex for the first time the hymen may have naturally "disolved" by then. Consider your self lucky if you don't bleed. I did...a lot...and it sucked.
2007-08-21 17:09:48 · answer #2 · answered by kamakazee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your hymen can break from a variety of different excercises. For my first time I didn't bleed. If you use tampons then your hymen is most likely already broken. If your man is going to dump you over something like that, then maybe you should rethink marrying him.
2007-08-21 17:10:00 · answer #3 · answered by B.K. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HI AMY,
ARE YOU SURE YOUR HYMEN IS INTACT?
GIRLS SOMETIMES END UP BREAKING THEIR HYMEN BY ACCIDENT AND WILL NOT BLEED WHEN HAVING SEX.
IF YOU'RE INDEED A VIRGIN AND YOUR FIANCEE DOUBTS THE FACT, HE'S IGNORANT AND DOESN'T UNDERSTAND HUMAN ANATOMY.
THE FACT IS NOT EVERY VIRGIN WILL BLEED, AND THAT'S OK.
BE SATISFIED WITH YOUR OWN TRUTH AND BELIEF.
2007-08-21 17:03:07 · answer #4 · answered by Dr. Albert, DDS, (USA) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. What a guy.
-sarcasm-
2007-08-21 16:53:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋