why would girls NOT BLEED when they have sex for the first time??? Whats the cuase of that???? Im a virgin and I'm scared that I'm not ganna bleed and my Fiance is like if you don't bleed that means your not a virgin and he will dump me!! I'm scared I AM A VIRGIn and his like scarin meee!!!
2007-08-21 09:39:03 · 3 answers · asked by AmY 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
Here is a little science for you:
The reason girls bleed when they have sex for the first time, is because of the hymen break. The hymen is like a ring in your vagina. It streches - like a muscle. When the muscle is stretched too much, it will rip/tear, which will cause bleeding.
Some girls do not bleed because their hymen is more flexible, or for some other reason. It's just how it works. Also, it can be ripped/torn for other reasons, too. Using a tampon, foreplay (fingering, etc).
Now, your fiance sounds like a real winner. You both sound very young and immature, and I am not sure if you are ready to have sexual intercourse. If he is threatening to dump you due to his misinformation, then he is definitely an idiot. And you...find a book on the science of sexual intercourse, and read up on it. Highlight the parts that he is completely wrong about, and see where that takes you. If he apologizes for the way he treated you, then he is a keeper, but if he acts like a jerk, it's time to let him go and find a more respectable partner.
2007-08-21 09:53:57 · answer #1 · answered by Kate 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Dump your fiance.
I did not bleed when I lost my virginity.
How old are both of you?
He should know that not every virgin bleeds when they lose their virginity. Is HE a virgin?
2007-08-21 17:41:47 · answer #2 · answered by Terri 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
does he really love you?if he loves you,its no matter wether u are virgin or not,we live in 2007.Maybe u must look for a more modern man.
2007-08-21 16:51:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋