and he left his wife and family for you...how would you feel about him lying to his ex wife? He lied to his ex wife about the timing of his vacation so that he would not have to bring his son. Of course, he would never admit that - even to himself!
2007-08-21 08:19:07 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
The fact that he dumped his family for another woman doesn't say much about him. Chances are he won't be any more faithful to you.
2007-08-21 08:22:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
I am not sure I get your question.
So, even after the guy left his family for you, you're not satisfied, you're dragging the past because??
Is it because you are feeling guilty, or because he is feeling guilty and it makes you unhappy?
If I were you, I wouldn't dwell on the past.
Not that his family can ever be the past to be honest.
It's one thing to cheat and live in fear, but it's another thing to have it in the open and know that everything will change for ever!!!
Yes, sometimes people will be eaten by guilt and even when they can't go back, they still find it difficult to move on.
So, your nagging isn't going to help.
I have no idea what you expect from the guy.
Or are you afraid that he'd lie to you too after lying to his family for you?
Yeah, living a lie is never easy, and once the lie is out in the open, it's sometimes even harder.
But, hopefully you won't be tearing each other apart or this will have been a mess for nothing.
On the other hand, if you think that he can't move on with you, maybe you should tell him to go back, or give him some space so that he makes up his mind once and for all.
At least, you could then build on something real.
2007-08-21 08:40:33 · answer #2 · answered by Kc 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all Ive dated a married man but he had no kids and he is still with his wife. Ive had Many relationship If i date someone who was married and had wife and kids i would feel no respect for him at all because if he walked away with from his wife and kid he would do the same to me.
He should have just told his ex wife that he was taking someone else with him on vacation and it would not be appreciate for the child to come.
2007-08-21 08:47:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you're concerned about his character or that he'll lie to you or be dishonest toward you, you can bet that lying to his wife is the tip of the iceberg. Consider this - he also willingly cheated on her, broke the vows he made on his (first) wedding day, and then deceived her about his alleged love for her while he was cheating. Add to that the fact that you helped him with many of those deceptions and I would guess he'll not have a very hard time deceiving you too.
2007-08-21 08:26:21 · answer #4 · answered by Jeremy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For starters, if you had an affair with a married man, it makes you a homewrecking whore, if he leaves you for his family and does not come to the realization that his actions are wrong and he needs to fix the problem at home, not make it worse somewhere else, he's a worthless dick, and you have more to be concerned about than him lying to his wife, because you let him do it, you were an accomplice, you joined him in these lies, and knew what you were doing was wrong, your whole relationship has been one big lie. Good for you, that's definitely something to be proud of!
2007-08-21 08:25:16 · answer #5 · answered by SuperGurl78 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Apparently, lying comes second nature to this man, like breathing. I think the real question you're asking is: If he could lie so easily about anything, then what is the truth when he's with you?
It's only a matter of time before he lies to you. If he hasn't already.
2007-08-21 08:26:08 · answer #6 · answered by Yankee Micmac 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Like the first person said if he lied to her who says that he's not going to lie to you.
Another thing as well, if he left his wife and family I wouldn't get to comfortable in the situation he could do it again to you.
2007-08-21 08:25:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
If he lied to his ex wife, then he would lie to me. If he cheated with me, then he most likely will cheat on me. Never ever would cheat with any man but especially with a married man....just asking for trouble.
2007-08-21 08:24:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well..1st of all an affair with a married man??? There are lots of unmarried and handsome man out there...If he cheated on his other family including the child than what can stop him from doind the same again to you...There are other beautiful women out there too...
2007-08-21 08:26:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well you have to assume that he is the way he is. Which means if he can feel okay about lying to everybody else, believe he can do it just as easily with you. It will likely come back and bite you in the butt later on in life, what you're doing to this woman and her family. It wouldn't do you any harm to set your standards a little higher when looking for a man to trust. If you ask me, you're asking for it.
2007-08-21 08:25:36 · answer #10 · answered by JAS 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First of all for you to not only date a married man but to stay with him after all that you need deep counseling. He is obviously someone who lies, cheats and is a terrible father you really want to be with this guy. Move out of your trailer get a degree get a good job and find someone that is not married
2007-08-21 08:25:03 · answer #11 · answered by youcandoit 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋